I'm a first year Uni student and established a good rapport / attraction with a girl I met who has been comfortable with kino etc for quite a while, so I spotted the strong IOI indicators that she was attracted to me early on. This progressed to the extent of KISSCLOSE (in her Halls opposite me) on Saturday and would have gone all the way had I not been the muppet I was without a condom...CRASH AND BURN is what I am guessing you call it?

And it doesn't end there as I stupidly didn't tell her the exact reason for leaving and clearly state; "Emma, this is as far as it can go tonight because I haven't got a condom"


Anyway I saw her off with a kiss and said I'd we'd talk tomorrow (Sunday), which we did on facebook (not the same) and it was a brief general message. I texted her back that evening to ask her how her day was etc and did not receive a reply. I know this isn't down to busyness etc so I'm left wondering whether that stupid act has actually lost all her interest in me, though it is hard to reason that after her actions that night? It was a very embarrassing and annoying experience and I now feel a complete AFC.

So I would really like advise on how to take it from here without making the situation worse for myself coming across as a One-itus AFC... I haven't spoken to her today but want to.

Should I text her to ask if I can come up for a chat (and risk her not responding) or knock on her door unexpectedly / surprise her.

I think this lass is a really nice girl and we did have a connection - am I worrying too much? What should I say to get rid of the awkwardness?

Thanks for reading and sorry for the length.