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Ok, this is something thats bugged me for a while. Most of you don't have much time so I'll keep it brief.
I believe that If you don't discuss the detail of your relationships with other people not in the relationship you satisfy a female emotional need, and by doing that they are more likely to flirt with you and do crazy shit with you because no one will find out.
Equally though I think that "braging" about what you have done and "lightly slipping it in" to conversations with girls can also increase your atraction via proving pre-selection?!
So i'm at a loss how private should you be about what you do withs girls? bare in mind that my first instinct is to tell my best mates and shout "hell yes"
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I'd slip it in that I've been with exotic dancers and models.
Like, try to keep it balanced.
When a girl is like "wow so you must get a lot of girls/ aren't you a player"
I just reply "Yeah, I guess, oh, by the way.../ I'm not a player, a player is someone who gets attraction but doesn't create comfort, you know, the guy who sleeps with random chicks, I'm not that kinda guy!"