Ok, so Im at university and im living in halls with this amazingly hot HB9 (not 10 beacause I believe thats reserved for Megan Fox only) and we kinda hit it off. She's quite quiet and convo was a bit short but we started watching movies and that together and kissed pretty much everyday for a couple of weeks. One night I got a FC but she stopped it because yes, she has a boyfriend. The lads an idiot, a jock, a chav, whatever, I know that from what she tells me. But she said she couldnt break up with him because she loves him or some shit. But anyway, we carried on as we were untill things started getting a bit serious. Or rather I got a bit drunk and jealous. We ended up having 2 arguments in 2 days and now all of this has stopped. Before she was really shy around me, but when we were alone she was telling me how she didnt know what to say to me and that all she wanted was for me to come and see her etc etc. But now its all gone cold, we've still got the awkwardness but without the nice nights cuddled up in her room.

I can't say im good with girls but the girlfriends (all 2 of them, im 20) I have had have both been gorgeous. I punch above my weight, admitadly. But ever since I broke up with my last girlfriend I feel like I'm missing something, like the thing that makes me able to get with these girls. Conversation with this girl has never been great, but now I need to make up for the arguments and get back into her good books. Before, I would have known how too naturally. But now I'm just so anxious my mind goes blank. I dont even think she likes me anymore. My best mate in the flat gets on really well with her and makes her laugh all the time, and it makes me furious, but of course I cant and wouldnt say anything. I used to be able to compete with the funny guys coz I've got a good sense of humour myself, but my worries are getting the better of me.

If anyone has any kind of advice or input that'd be great. Cheers gents.

NP

My take would be, you have a bit of a self esteem issue, like with your two girls, you feel like they were a punch above, when you should feel like they were privileged enough to hangout with you.

Girl's reality's are flexible like hell. If you can act like nothing is wrong (because essentially, nothing really is wrong) then she'll follow suit. You have to lead, you are the man. You have to get over what she thinks about you. It doesnt matter what she thinks, all that matters is what you think. The best thing for you to do is to just let it go and move on. There are definitely way more girls in your university than just this one.

Good luck man, PM me if you have any questions.


Cheers,
Patrick

Thanks mate, much appreciated. Tbh, thats how I think. I do think that a girl would be lucky to have me, as anyone man should think because at the end of the day, unless your Josef Fritzl, everyone has something about them which makes them attractive to a girl. It's just I'm finding things really difficult with this girl. I see her everyday and everytime its like physical pain that I can't really converse or game on her to make her my gf. Everything was cool until I started acting like a prick to her, trying to do the whole piss take thing, think I took it too far and she started to say I was just like her boyfriend. But I'm not. I think she's amazing!

Think I just need to let this one go for now and whatever happens in the future will happen. It's not as if anythings going on right now, we can hardly look eachother in the eye. Or at least I can't with her.

This sucks.

NP