Hey Guys
Been doing this for a year now and have hit points when im really good. I got to a stage though when i found i was just going out doing routine and routine and my weakness was that i was showing interest too soon. If a guy comes up to a girl in a club and is palm reading her in 5 minutes, it seems a bit try hard.
So then i went to total natural game but that didnt seem to build much attraction.

If you consider Cajun for example, he assumes the rockstar demeneur where as Mehow will bombard them with energy and game, right off the bat.

I realise there are different ways for everyone, and im trying to figure out my most natural one.

Wondering if any of you guys had hit the same hurdle and what you reccomend.

I was totally set in the M3 model for a while. I would rattle off openers and transition into DHV stories like clockwork, but I realised I wasn't getting anywhere because I was being too robotic. Plus I used the same opener over and over till not even I cared about it, let alone the girl!

Now I'm a big Adam Lyons, Mehow and Sinn fan. Basically looking at the social situation before I open, using more situational and functional openers, and assuming rapport and using rapport breaks. I like the high energy thing, it's my style and I'm congruent with it - if you're not having a fun time and joking around, why would they choose to talk to you when they could be having more fun with someone else?

I think the important thing is to find PUAs who you agree with and who are similar to your personality. Then it's much easier to be congruent when you use their material or techniques because they already talk and act similarly to you. Don't force yourself to go out wearing goggles over a top hat and 4-inch platform shoes if that's totally not the kind of thing you'd ever do!

I usually go with a honesty route. If I see a girl, then I'll be completely straight forward with her as possible. If she isn't complying, I'll tell her. If she's reacting positively, I'll tell her she's fun. Stuff like that. I still do a few routines that I know work, but for the most part I keep my interactions with the girl as genuine as possible. That keeps every set I do with a woman different. And it never gets old, as say if I used a lot of canned material, and routine after routine after story, after story.

I guess you could say my style is a lot like Cajun's, in a way. He has a lot of confidence and a swagger like no other PUA I've seen. And I feel I continue that mindset throughout my entire day.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

Thanks guys, i have made some significant progress today.

I was doing daygame, i saw a hot girl in Starbucks and went over and said
"Hey.........You have a really cool style, id be kicking myself if i didnt come over and introuduce myself.....hi ( stick out hand ) my name is.....

I Have NEVER had an opener go better in my life, she was practically frothing at the mouth and kept saying she couldn believe what was happening. I then sat down for a few mins , chatted, small bit of qualification, few DHVs here and there, closed and went.

I then saw a real hot spanish chick in HMV and tried the same thing. She didnt understand what i was saying lol. So i checked out her CD's , told them to put them back and i was going to find her something. picked up a Peter Andre CD ( total loser ) and starting busting on her. Fluffed, then closed.

This was is REALLY easy and way more enjoyable than being in a nightclub. It does seem a bit of a letdown though.

Did anyone else feel that when they read the game they were unlocking a secret code that you did in Sync to get laid?

In reality , Neil Strauss NEEDED those codes because he wasnt as asthetically pleasing as most people. The rest of us can get by with a bit of swagger.

I fucking love it when you break your sticking point, thanks guys

I'm new to this, but I thought "Hi, my name is..." was frowned upon as an opener. No?

In day game, its much better to introduce yourself, it gains acceptance faster.
And seeing as im going direct, i have already displayed intent so no reason to try and build intrigue, thats more for group club gaming.

And also, fuck the rules, its what works best for you.