okay so ive been talking with this an hb7.5 for a little while after meeting here at one of my bands shows. problem is shes young and is leaving for college next year far away so i obviously dont see this going far but i guess im kindof living in the moment. last night we watched a movie in my room and started cuddling. i went for the kiss later and it worked. but i wonder if i should continue.

she texted me this morning. so i have to ask when you kissed me. was that the nyquill talking?. (i was sick and had taken nightquill)

how do the Mpua's pull of being with these girls for a short amount of time than going to the next one?

im very new to all this so i was not planning on getting attatched to her so i can continue my journey in the field. (and im not attached, just think shes cute and smart)

any advice would be great :]

Be an alpha and text someting like "I kissed you becasue I wanted to, and I don't apologise for it." Straight, to the point, and alpha.

It sounds rude no? I don't see anything that show you want to still do it or go for f-close. It will be better without the "and I don't apologise for it" no? I am new too in this.

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

If you have set a very dominant frame (alpha) then a reply like this would be the best to use.

If you haven't then you need to find out what sort of frame you are setting and use responses which align to it. If you dont you will have to deal with in congruency which will cause your girl to think you are either a player a poser or just generally someone not to be trusted.

Be CONGRUENT!
Trust me incongruency is a bitch

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It takes a lot of balls to dump your old life and move forward ....... it also involves a period of loneliness which i have am figuring out sucks