Okay, so I slept with this girl last new year. After that we didnt contact anyhow. Now I have talked to her on msn for a few days, she still seems interested to me.

She mentioned about her high schools pre-chrishmas parties and said something like "Come to party with me there!", she is one of the organizers. Well, now I dropped a fucking dumb bomb to her: "I´ll be there if I can set up a strip club on the other floor of that house! "

She didnt answer to that, after that I tried to be like "Im cool with what I say" and went to topic "Dont tell me that the parties hit on with the exam week?! "

Well, she answered shortly to next questions, what is not her style.

The parties are in 4 weeks, what should I do with this girl. I know she will be interested in me if I dont ruin this shit now. Should I just shut up, and not talk to her via internet/msn and blow it somehow, just wait till the parties?

And question number 2, should I be after some other chicks first that night, or directly strike on her? In the other hand she might get offended if Im kissing other chicks or sumthing like that...?

Thanks for yer answer!

I suppose if you want to sleep with this girl you shouldn't be making out with other girls at the party. With that being said, don't restrict yourself only to her at the party, talk to everyone: women and guys. If your talking to girls you don't have to have the aim of getting something from any of them, just conversation. Don't follow her around, casually walk over to her throughout the night, don't spend too much time with her, move around alot throughout the party. Be the life of the party.
I'm not sure about your exact circumstances, do you plan to have sex with her at the actual party? or is meeting her at the party a pretext to sex which should occur later on down the line?
If you do want to sleep with her, make sure you're not only talking to her all night, walk over to her talk to her for a bit and then react on how the conversation is flowing. If you feel she's REALLY attracted and you could sleep with her as soon as possible in the best given situation, then take her somewhere where you can do so.

Yea, thats what I was thinking about. Not spending whole night with her.

Though, if she is not attracted, my ego is gonna get a kick in the head. How should I proceed then, so it doesnt look like Im a "tryhard". Would this Stealth Attraction system work, answer only if you know about it/have tried it?

I'm in the same situation. Got some girl attracted, and a party in a few weeks. Thinking about not chatting too much online to not mess it up somehow.

Hahah, yeah... Im keeping my hands away the keyboard too

Vizzy has a good point which I want to expound on.

You need to social proof yourself to this girl!~ Especially considering you might have come off as somewhat of a tard (sorry) during your IMs.

This will redeem you almost instantly and bring you back as the thing she is trying to seek.

Slein~