This is tough. I am good with kino escalation and all that, but I don't know if I'm good enough to pull this off.

I have class with my ex girlfriend once a week. She txts me every now and then. But she's currently so busy she has no time to hang out (or so she says, of course).

We broke up because I think I moved too fast. Way too fast, and got bored. We broke up after a month.

But negging her a bit, and push push pull methods are helping me slowly gain her interest back I think.

But that's far from actually hanging out with her.

What can I do?

first, be sure you actually want this. i re-obtained all of my exes, and then regretted it so fuckin much that it helped me realize I needed game to get *other* girls. looking back on it, I still can't believe the energy I put into getting those girls back.

you guys only have a month of history. if you think you moved too fast, then you prob did.

she is still thinking about you if she texts you. it sounds possible still.... you ever see that episode of 'curb your enthusiasm' where larry's wife leaves him and he wants her back ? this dude gives him advice - he says 'you need to become some other motherfucker'. that's so right. become the Man that you were not when you were with her. show don't tell. date other girls. one time i texted my ex (truly by accident) after a date w/another girl saying 'last night was really fun'. really got her hot and bothered. but more hot...

Good advice, thank you my friend.

I kind of do hint (or leave it up to the imagination) that I am going on dates with other girls (which I am). I don't tell her out right, but I say things like I got dragged to go see a movie

I DO want her back. Maybe because I like the chase. Or because what we had was comfortable.

But deep down... I want her back because I care so deeply for who she is. I DO want her back.