Im in college and there is this girl I go to school with she is fucking hot, well we flirt with each other "making eye contact". One day I decided to go up to her in the computer lab because we were the only ones in there. I go up and tell that I had been wondering who she was and told she was attractive and she smiled. Well the conversation went on about what was her major and so forth. But at the end of the conversation I ask can I call her sometime and she tells me she has a boyfriend,,OK I didn't blink and asked if I could talk to her from time to time and she said yes.. Well every since then I haven't went back up to her to talk. Now Im dating this other girl but I really want her. She always see us togther but there is no way she can tell that she is my girlfriend " I think. Anyway lately when we are in the computer lab will either come and sit next to me and then immediately move or sit front of me and then move. I think she wants me to notice her ??? Also there is this other guy that is not even attractive at all that she is always laughing with like she is enjoying her company but i think he tried to make his move and got shot down because i don't see them in the computer lab anymore talking but that's hand. So what fellas what do you think I should do

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Swayze

Not give a fuck.

Who do you value more? yourself or the girl? (yourself) so if you TRULY value yourself more, you would do whatever you want (have a clear intent). So you dont give a fuck about her BF, about what she does in the computer lab, or about that other guy.

You know what you want and you go for it. This is called Masculinity. Read Way of the Superior Man.

Now with that being said, you should go out and grow some balls. That is what you should do.

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Mistake 1: NEVER tell a girl she's attractive/hot etc. They get this 1,000 times a day and don't give a shit. They know they're hot. You have to value them for stuff they actually care about, after you have already sparked attraction and are building comfort.

Mistake 2: NEVER ASK for anything. You are a fucking man. You TAKE what you want, no apologies, no ifs no buts. Don't ask her "can I call you sometime". Say "I gotta run, hey let's exchange contact info so we can continue this conversation another time" Simple, easy, works 100% of the time if you have any rapport whatsoever.

Mistake 3: You're getting the dreaded ONEitis over this girl. Game some other girls, and you'll start to see how totally not special this one is. Also by gaming other girls you'll make her more attracted to you because you'll show pre-selection.

You say you're already seeing someone. I would make it clear to them that you want to keep the relationship casual and open NOW, before things get more serious and she expects you to commit. It's not cool to go around lying to girls about who you are and where you think the relationship is going. Be honest and open and if there is a connection, they will accept it.