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| Foxtrot 5 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 10:42 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Jul 07, 2009 10:58 pm Posts: 270 Location: Syracuse, NY | | So I get all these Speed Seduction tactics in my email bullshit and one was about girls that flake. Anyway I had a date today with a girl I already had sex with and she texted last minute saying she had to study for a midterm and can't go out. Here's how it went:
Now this is the jist of what Ross Jefferies sent
HB: Blah Blah, can't go, blah
Me: Really? Look you made a commitment to spend time with me and now your blowing me off. You're disrespecting me and my time. My rule is, if someone makes a commitment to me, I expect them to keep it. If not, I need to know a day in advance to make other plans. Got it? If you can live with that rule, cool... if not, later.
After rugby practice 2 hours later I checked my phone.
HB: okay. Breathee its not that big of a deal so if you wanna not be an asshole about it thatd be nice. I'm ditching you for a midterm. like do you honestly think studyings what i wanna do with my night.
Now, I've been a push over all my life until I found this community so I wanted to try it out. We've had sex already and we have good chemistry. How do I recover without looking like a bitch?
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| DonRico | PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:06 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Oct 22, 2009 7:59 am Posts: 17 | | What it sounds like it that she is submitting to you. She asked you if studying is what you think she would rather be doing?
Fuck it, I say tell her you know she would rather go out with you, but the plans you made for her are shot. You believe in second chances, so you'll take her out after midterms are over.
Then freeze her out.
You set a precedent, I say stick to your guns. If she doesn't come crawling back or flakes again. Fuck her
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| Ryan Black SashaPUA | PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:09 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:35 pm Posts: 2091 Website: http://www.sashapua.com Location: London | | Freeze her out for a few days then say you're gonna be nice and give her a second shot since it was a midterm after all. Not a problem.
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| Foxtrot 5 | PostPosted: Thu Oct 22, 2009 11:39 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Jul 07, 2009 10:58 pm Posts: 270 Location: Syracuse, NY | | Idk, she seemed pissed through texting but I didn't wanna back down. She did flake though and I don't think it'll ever happen again.
So the main answer is freeze her out and tell her she gets a 2nd chance next week?
Any other opinions?
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| DonRico | PostPosted: Fri Oct 23, 2009 12:07 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Thu Oct 22, 2009 7:59 am Posts: 17 | | well yeah, she seemed a little pissed, but i think that's what fox is shooting for.
She could have have shut him out because of it, but she didn't.
You can try setting up the next date and being distant until that time. Then continue as usual.
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