hey guys!
since first becoming involved with this whole community i've always wondered whats better...phoning or texting. after number-closing i never know what the best way forward is. any suggestions?
Also, i was texting a girl last night and i told her a random funny story from my day and we chatted and i subtly suggested the idea of goin for a drink. she said she thought that sounded good. i was unsure as to how to proceed from here.

what do you guys think the best way forward would be?

Regards

Lucky

Send a text that same night meeting her to tell her you had a fun time, etc. Keep it real short.
Next, call or text the next day to keep her interest in you intact.

In your situation I'd just set up the date. She already said she'd want to. So pick a low pressure place and a time. Then continue gaming

cheers buddy!

So you think i should make it just the two of us out for a couple of drinks or somethin or do you think i'd be better sayin somethin like "i'll be out at *location* on tuesday it would be good to see you there!" ?

Regards

Lucky

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i think phone game is a huge aspect of game that isn't talked about too much in the community in terms of there being a lot of published material on it

i'd say foxtrot is on the right track with sending a text shorty after but keeping it very short and to the point just to make sure your on her mind still but after that let her sit it out a day or two then maybe give her another text saying something like "hey there sorry i've been real busy lately how about that drink soon?" then you can see whens good for you both ... keeping it short and sweet is always a good bet with texts (reading a manuscript text message is annoying as shit) and saying "i've been busy" can show that you have an active lifestyle and that you've got things going for you outside of her

the text itself is not so much important as the drink/date thats when you'll have to actually game her no girl is going to bang you over a series of text messages, i like to think of texts as just an easy way to set up dates, flirt, and build rapport but they're not so much a make or break kind of thing

[ side note: i think a huge mistake guys make with texts is sending them back too quickly. if you get a response from her wait a little bit before responding, if you send an instant reply it shows that you have nothing better to do with your time than sit around and wait for her texts]

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Thanks a lot, mate! Thats a big help.


Regards

Lucky

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"Better to keep your mouth closed and have people think you're a fool than to open at and remove all doubt."

Yea, I've recently found out that you should definitely space your texts out. If you just keep texting it's just comfort with no attraction, kino, or emotion and you can easily slip into friend zone. Text to make her laugh once in a while and set up dates.

Ask her to go to a local coffeehouse or something original, but if there's nothing to original in the area (like mine) go to a chill dinner with her.

Also, make sure when you set up the date don't make it seem like a set up.

Just say "Hey I'm going out to have some tea and crumpets with my lads, would you like to come along?" and when she shows up tell them they had plans or w/e.

Also I don't agree with your signature - I'd rather be a magnum45 than a random or a nobody.

I'd rather be KNOWN for something stupid than to not be known at all.

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haha cheers for the text advice mate!
when i think of a more interesting quote i'll change it...just for you though haha

Regards

Lucky

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Sure thing!

No problem!

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