problems i need to fix before beginning PUA methods
(i'm too analytical, too careful, too self conscious)
my looks

I would like to bgyin by stating that i do not understand the definition of good looking, average or ugly in man.(i'm a guy myself) the reasons why i've mentioned this is because my closest friends(all males, no homo lol) have always said i was good looking however i've started doubting my looks lately. I've asked several girl friends if i look good however they obvisouly said yer cause they would feel bad if they say yer(thats what i think anyway). i know a lot of people here say looks dont matter however i truely find that hard to believe.
the last time i went to a party some chick rated me a 7 after my friend asked her to rate me. in all honestly i think she was being lenient when she rated therefore i recuded it to a 5(sigghh)

confidence

i can have bursts of confidence sometimes however most of the time i'm quite and pretty much keep everything to my self. i'm more talkative around friends and family. everytime i try to chat with a girl i always end up creating an akward situation for example saying a comment which ends up becoming an insult. ow and i starter when i talk, sometimes

clothing style

i cant really afford to purchase crazy clothes like everyone else does cause i wanna focus on finishing my sixth form first. i'll definetly apply for a job in univerisity. i swear every guy wear the same stuff, in my age range anyway

ultimate problem

i'm new to this whole PUA thing i;ve been reading and watching a few videos. the problems is i just dont understand chicks, i means what the hell do they want in a good..does everyone need to look like a fuckin fabio lol


its like i know what to improve but i just dont know what...

i just need your HELP please

i would really appriciate your help....thanks

This whole becoming to " PUA " is not a process, its a journey. "The ultimate teacher is the failure." You learn by doing and experimenting this stuff in the real world and than failing. But its a good thing because now you know what works and what doesent.There is no short cuts but for someone the beginning of the journey might be easier than for someone else. After all, we are all humans. We are all different and we all have our own flaws. Some have to overcome fears/ things that the others doesent have to. We all have our own list of things we have to win before getting any succes.
So sponge information where ever you can ( read books, forums, ask questions, etc. ) and go out and try how it works. When you fail, good! Now you are a wiser person than before and one step closer to your goal.

There might be one goal ( pursuit of happiness and a love for life ) but everyones road is different.


[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

hey ma dont forget to look utside teh pua box , the art of pua is not a rigid structure , some people follow every trick, routein an dline and it works , but not for me, i Pick up a few negs and just put my self into a conversaion , not an easy thing to do but it gets better and better until now its just easy and conversation flows and girls are no longer seen as a threta they are a playfl challenge and the "game" can be truly enjoyed.

Remember this however . there is NO simple way to overcome fear, you have to face it , you have to feel every part of the anxiety of approaching and opening , because weather you faill or succeeed , and at times u will fail , your mind realises that despite all the fear you felt before teh approach your completely fine .

so basicly face your fears , youl become a much stronger person , and do this not only with women but throughout your life .

Iif they nock your teet out , spit them in their face


get in touch if you have nay questions ,

best of luck

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I wanto be what I was whn I wanted to be what I am now.
Except with the same lady skills