Today was a fantastic day. I could try to put it in a field report but I'll focus on the one thing I am worried about instead. I was hilarious today, I was just on a roll. All the girls I talked to laughed when I made jokes, I was a social center of the hall (at school) and I was pretty confident and not nervous.

Sounds great, I know. But what I am worried about is being a 'dancing monkey' for these girls and everyone else even. It was great just joking around with everyone and having a good time, but I don't want to forget about the PUA aspect; I want to run game on these girls as well. I wasn't really using any routines or openers or looking for IOIs.

Am I focusing too much on being funny?
Can you be too humorous and not serious enough?
Does this affect my game?
Will these girls think of me as 'the funny guy' and not a guy they would be romantically and intimately connected with?

Thanks so much.

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One if you are fun by natur keep it up!! women loves a guy that makes them laught!

If you can still play the game whiles being funny, do such. Evry ones game is diffrence, some do it whit a humors approch, some use a more laydback approch

I prefer a mix between the two. like i said It's werry personal

The main problem, is that if you are not kino eskalading, or in any other way displaying intrest, your going down to the lets be friend catagory, as the funny dude.

So keep your eyes open for IOI's and don't forget to chance from attraktion to comfort!

Regards

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It's not what you are, It's What people think you are.

This. Being on a roll and being funny are a great start, you're already ahead of 90% of guys just by being able to do this naturally. But if you don't kino escalate, then you're far more likely to get LJBF'd. This was my big sticking point for ages. Apart from kino, also remember that to properly generate attraction, you need to break the rapport you've built through your humorous interactions. This is where negging can come in, or just disagreeing with something she says for example. This will cause her to want to build that rapport back, get emotionally invested in you, and thus generate attraction. Once you see her trying to prove herself to you / build that rapport back, you know you have attraction and you can kino plow and build comfort from there.