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Im obviously new to this, but what is the best way to naturally follow a canned opener? Especially if its a really short opener?
Could you provide some more details like what kind of openers do you usually use. Directs, opinions? Give an example from the field. Whats the problem after you have opened? The one word answer and than not knowing how to continue?
Well here is what i usually do:
1. Opinion opener ( keep it short, 30 sec is ok. The idea is to wake their interest, not to bore them to death )
2. Light teasing/ light negging concerning what they answer ( about two neggs are good ) + first class kino ( first class kino is like hand shakes, high fives... something that we are used to in everyday action )
3. Hooking ( Asking: " where do you guys know each other ? " Now you have "hooks" where to grab if the energy level of the conversation dops. If they say for example that they both live in london and that they used to be next door neighbours. Hooks in this sentence would be " london " and " neighbour " etc. )
4. DHV story+ first class kino ( I use a DHV story instead of a game because now you can put your atenttion to both of them and this is the way that you will be saved by the try of the other girl trying to steal her away from you )
5. Isolate the target
Pointer: The main thing is that you dont just talk about the opener like 5 min. It gets boring. The idea is that YOU lead the conversation like an alpha male step by step who knows what he is doing!!
[ Johnny B ]