Are there any good books about this technique. It seems to qork A LOT in many situations. A lot of girls I've messed up with always say the same thing "They want a guy to take control" so the whole cutsie thing is something I definitely have to work on.

When I'm around girls, even just my friends I take control by always being in the centre of the group. I also motivate the group to do something and suggest new ideas. It helps if you can make them all laugh too.

I'll also be the one to suggest things. An example of this would be after we agree to go out, I won't say "What time best suits you", instead I'll say something along the lines of "Great, 7 sound good for you?".

In this instance I'm taking charge here by suggesting a time. But giving her the option to opt out if she has other plans. She'll generally say yes though.

the Satanic Bible I guess lol



why would you need a book to teach you your natural instincts?

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Unfortunately not all of us are born with the ability to express our natural selves. Some of us build a wrong frame for ourselves when we are young. Taking charge is something that can be developed just as anything talked about here is. In my case I am unable to show this kind of frame because of how my character was built when I was young.

Why are you always making Satanic references?

The Satanic Bible's title is misdirecting.

Its basically a book about self actualization and indulging your instincts.

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