hello i wanna ask a question
when i talk with a girl i dont have any topics that i can chat with her...
how to overcome this problem?
please advice

be social. Learn to bullshit with people. Don't fight the world, and love yourself. You should probably love yourself. That worked for me.

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Walk Hard

Chat something that has a purpose and leads to something you are after. Dont let it be a loose piece in your puzzle. The purpose behind the things you are after can be like building higher comfort, getting her to trust you more, talk something where you can add kino easily because its related to your story, talk something that prevents future LMR. Dont shoot with the gun without putting bullets into it.

Make the women feel comfortable with CREDIBILITY- letting her know ( Orginal by Vin DiCarlo ) :
1. i am safe
2. I understand and share her worldview
3. I can improve her worldview and change her reality by my guidence

Creating deeper connection between you two:

1. Asking things related to her childhood and than agreeing what she answers in a story mode or just complimenting. The deeper to her childhood you can go, the better because it creates stronger bond between you two.
For example: Compare me asking what she did last friday than me getting to know what was her favourite moovie at the age of six and than sharing that " whoa! It was my favourite film too! I remember my uncle taking me to this film and... "

You wanting to add some kino:

- You can tell a funny story which DHV you at the same time and just demostrateing what the " guy in the story "- did to this girl ( you can touch her arm like showing what this guy was trying to do and stuff like that ). Its a great way to add kino which seems " unvisible " for her because there is a purpose why you touch her but is " visible " for you because you touch her deliberately.

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

One way ive found realy helpfull recently, living with 3 other women is to read the magazines that they leave lying around. The shock on their faces when i can come out with things that most guys dont know anything about.
Also just simple things like expand on something she says. There are a few simple rules i stick to and i hope they help;

1. Never Lye- One lye will lead to another and if you intend to spend any time with a girl you may get found out. Also you wont say it with as much confidence.

2. Talk about your passions and hers- Not things like politics or religion but what you want to do with your life.

3.Enjoy the conversation- When you are genuinely enjoying a conversation you will be able to speak alot easyer.

Regards, Saint

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Attraction is the insatiable desire to be irresistibly desired