I thought it was all going well. But she freaked about moving too fast after the kiss. Did I fuck up? How many dates does it take to build comfort. This keeps happening to me. I want things to move fast. Any suggestions? My guess is two or three dates. Build attraction and then close. But that's a lot of work.

Did you kino escalate before the kiss? Because if she wasn't used to you touching her and then you went in for a kiss it would have been uncomfortable for her. Please provide more details.

It doesn't take any more than a few hours of comfort building before she's comfortable enough to kiss you without any buyer's remorse.

You may want to built your kino up step by step and allso make her feel comfortable before actually trying to kiss her. If you miss those early steps and comfort than you will find them later on in front of you making your day harder.
Building kino step by step:
1. First kino should be accidental ( hand shakes, high fives, touching her arm with yours while standing next to her etc. ). By this i mean that you make kino that is something we are all used to in everyday action.
2. Overt Kino ( Arm to arm escorting, hold hands etc.). This kino step means that you make kino that is " visible " but remember to keep it short. Reward her with this kino when she does something you like. Its like training a puppy.

Comfort:
" We make women feel comfortable with CREDIBILITY " - letting her know( Vin DiCarlo )
1. I am safe
2. I understand and share her worldview
3. I can improve her worldview and change her reality through my guidance

All Credit to Vin DiCarlo what i wrote to this post

[ Johnny B ]

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I did, but in retrospect I should have built up a bit more comfort with her. I just get impatient. My strategy works with skanks. They will just go for it. But real girls seem to need a lot more comfort. In fact I read somewhere that it takes up to 7 hours of time total to build comfort with a girl. That number actually seems accurate to me.

I am used to the club scene where things move fast. I recently switched to the day game and work cafes. My pick up game is excellent. But it's the more long and draw out comfort building portion that is new to me.

Live and learn.

I am still going to give her a call on Sunday and see of I can salvage it some way. I never give up until they clearly tell me they are not interested. My strategy is just turn the entire thing around and Let's Just Be Friends her. She might go for it.