Alright guys let me give a rundown of my situation, sorry if I'm rambling, I'm just a tad frustrated. I was introduced to PUA over a year ago and it has helped improve my quality of living tremendously. My communication, body language, confidence, style, etc has improved. So I graduated recently and was offered a job by a stockbroker I know. This guy is self made and shows all the characteristics of a PUA. He peacocks, he's extremely confident, not afraid of rejection, not afraid to take what he wants, etc. The alpha male. So I was hired by him to help him sell stocks and bonds and the first thing i would have to do is cold call to boost a few things... confidence, getting used to rejection and communication skills. After a while I'm now *pretty* used to it and my broker said I've improved in those areas.. I'm over the hump. I'm not nervous to speak to anyone and I don't care if they are not interested. Stockbroking is like PUA, purely a numbers game. I've gone out with this attitude and number closed a few girls and people around me have noticed a change. BUT there is this chick at work who started right before me.. she's the receptionist, I think she's gorgeous and for some reason every time I see her I do/say something stupid. For example today when I was leaving work, after I saw her I couldn't remember if I had to push or pull the door open (glass door with no frame) and naturally my first choice was the wrong one and she saw it, shook her head and laughed at me. Of course I should say something to make it a joke, instead I just said "I'll see ya later". This frustrated me so much. This is just one example, this shit happens all the time now! . WTF is wrong with me, guys?!? With other girls I'm perfectly fine, but this chick at work turns me into a little kid around his first crush. Hit me with it guys, I can take it.

OK you ready?

You are big walking vagina. That's right. It doesn't matter what you do now. Her first impressions are already forged and you've failed her first screen test.

Talk to her and build your confidence. Use her as an elevation point.

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or exterminate her

It's true, I've backtracked into a AFC/the big walking vagina. Has anyone experienced this or redeemed themselves from something similar to this?

OK, I don't know the ins and outs of your situation.

I'm not qualified to disassemble your life in the context of one post. However, your story has me thinking:

1)You're so piss scared around this girl she can smell it from a mile off. She laughs at you when you do something stupid because she knows you like her.
2) As such, you're more or less in the friend's zone. It's a bad place to be.


My advice is the same as before: Fuckin speak to her, it probably won't have a positive effect (in the sense you've missed getting into her pants) because of first impressions and all, but it WILL help to de-sensitise you if another special flower comes your way.

Personally, it sounds like you got ons over this chick. Those type of interactions never really work.

But keep it fluid, keep talking to her and other girls. Social proofing. And one day you'll see a 9, and you'll do all the right things you've done wrong now.

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You're right man, I'm sure she can sense that I'm pissing in my boots. I'm going to be working out of a different office for the rest of the week so I've got a week to get my balls back.

What's "ons" dude?

Pardon my naiveness..

Yep.
Otherwise known as oneitis. Typically it is something a guy gets over that one special girl. This happens with normally over exs. 'Ahhhh damn, but she was the one!' When you get ons over some girl you've never even spoke to, the alarm bells should be ringing. It's telling me you have a serious lack of game.

I ain't gonna patronise you. But you NEED to be conversant with the entire office. Everyone girls and guys. I think you need to work yourself up to speaking to her.

So talk to john, mary and Bill, then wander past her and say something. It doesn't fucking matter.

Hey _____, how was your weekend? Did you see _______ it was hilarious?

Do it.

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Pretend she's a guy and just talk to her like she's a normal fucking person. You may not get out of LJBF with her, but hey, why not make some hot female friends? There are plenty of other girls to game and office romances can be awkward anyway.

Had similar scenario man hahah!