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| yo | PostPosted: Thu Oct 15, 2009 1:49 am | |
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Posts: 5 | | How do you deal with them. I often go out with girls only for them to start disclosing info about problems at home, with family, work, etc. This leads to me becoming their friend instead of their boyfriend. How should you handle the situation when a girl starts to talk about something negative that is bugging her. I don't know what to do and i probably come off as AFC.
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| xChocolate | PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 10:21 am | |
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Posts: 36 | | This have happend to me alot, and its annoying, but i always say "girl, right now we're on a date, forget about all your problems just for now and lets just have fun, alright? ;D". but show her that you care, but its the wrong time to talk about it.
and if they bitch about you not caring about their problems, go away. you dont want a psycho girlfriend. trust me.
and how to NOT get into the friendzone you need to seduce her and show interest. you are not suppose to be her Psychologist or solution to her problem.
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| Brendan | PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 10:37 am | |
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Location: Brisbane, Australia | | As xChocolate said, listening to her problems and comforting her is the fast track to the friend zone. You want to become the guy that is associated with fun. Do you really think that a girl who's interested in a guy is gonna tell him everything that's WRONG with her? She most probably won't. She saves that for the friend zone'd loser who listens to all of her problems and comforts her like an AFC.
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| KristallNachte | PostPosted: Fri Oct 16, 2009 1:49 pm | |
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Location: Kintown, Okinawa, Japan | | I generally just ignore there problems and change the conversation, and after a few weeks i start to actually help her with her framing of the world so she can deal with the problems herself. _________________ Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future
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