So I'm on a date with an HB8 who I number closed a week before. It's day time. We're walking arms linked by the lakeshore in the city where she lives. I playfully say to her, "You're really pretty. What else separates you from the pack?" Naturally I expected her to start qualifying herself, telling me she's smart, nice, whatever. Instead she sarcastically tells me she's a violent bitch, not fun to be around and basically makes up a bunch of lies to make herself seem unattractive to me. I felt like I had just gotten a shit test. This is the second time this has happened to me. Different girl. Needless to say the rest of the date was kind of a flop.

In the future what are some positive solutions or ways to deal with this situation when it occurs? Keeping in mind the goal is to further the attraction.

Thanks,

-Compliments

ha ha, i like her!

Dude play along with her! get used to girls being cocky like that...you had it easy there, she was being sarcastic as you said! that aint a shit test...shit tests can be harsh and guys can fail to pick them up and simply walk away with tail between legs, but your girl? she was simply flirting with you. flirt back.

I agree, she seems fun.

Play along with that. At least laugh it out.

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Yeah, if anything you should have phrased it differently. If I got the response she gave you I'd say "Wow, sounds like we're a perfect match. I'm a schizophrenic who uses violent outbursts to hide my closet homosexuality. For example, a girl told me she wanted me to 69 her so I hit her in the head with a shovel and chopped her into 69 pieces... (whisper) she's still in my trunk." You just blew out whatever she said and she'll probably be in shock from what she just heard. If she is, pinch her ass and say "Just kidding", if she wasn't shocked then you're in anyways. In general, if you've got as far as you have I don't think you need to try to get her to qualify herself to you anymore. At that point you should be establishing comfort, getting a couple IOI's and some kino; then moving to the seduction phase.

Thanks for the advice. I think you guys are right. Comfort and seduction were my problems in this scenario. I beleive I probably screwed things up with this girl, but I'm going to take this experience and what you said as a lesson and move forward.

My goal is to continuosuly improve. I started out not even knowing how to talk to women in clubs....To come this far... There's no turning back baby! =)

You guys are awesome. Thanks again.

-Compliments

Dude, here's an easy quick response,

Hbl: I'm bossy, bitchy, mean etc...

You: shit..... dude you sound just like my wife

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