Theres this girl from work who is a dime (7/10 looks, 13/10 personality), we hit it off one night after a party (went swimming in our underwear at a pool at 4:00am and just chilled)

I tried texting her the next day and she was being short+taking forever to reply and just randomly stopped texting back so i figured she was disinterested in me and i was friend zoned.


Today (4 days later) i get this text from her:

Her:Hey tomorrow night after work, me and angela are going to the club and were trying to get people to come, wanna go?

me: Eh, ill see..on a thursday night?

Her: ya for sure, do you not go out on weekday nights?

Me:nah i went out last night but i just didnt think a club would be all that popular on a thursday...who all is going?

Her: idk whoever wants to go.




come to find out she also invited my best friend+his GF to go, so im starting to think i got friendzoned...so the question im asking, should i go to the club with her+her friend (who is butt ugly) and possibly other people from work, and risk being pissed off she is grinding her ass on another guys dik head, or use it as a time to spit some game? (45 minute ride there and back, plus some in club game)

thats not cool.

..about your situation...

take friends along...try get girls to come with you....when you get there...game other girls and just have a normal good night out...you will soon notice if she is interested in you or not by her reaction to the lack of attention youre giving her. dont go alone...try bring a group as if youre on your own mission...and if shes grinding some guys dick head...who cares? get another girl to grind yours. shes not that special, seriously.

im not saying ignore her for the night...just dont make the night about HER....tease her and disappear every now and then to make her wonder where you are.

you are not in that club for HER, youre going to go for the party and own it.

First off, there is no 13 on a 1 to 10 scale. Learn to count.

The time it takes for a girl to text back doesn't say anything, it's irrelevant. She could have her reasons. The key thing to remember here is: You like her, that doesn't have to be a secret. You're high value anyways.

Club+chicks=social proof. Go talk to other girls, make them laugh. Your target will notice. Having girls around you you know is a nice gettaway when a set goes bad. Set goes bad->yea yea, w/e-> turn to other girls->happy times->other girls will want you back.