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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 3:48 pm 
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I met this HB8 at work a couple of months ago, she's pretty fun and outgoing. Since the first time i got to talk to her i started using negs, kino, playing hard to get and all this techniques to work on the attraction, and they worked. She recenlty got fired from work, but before that i got her number and had invited her to a gig, she said she would go but she didn't, i got to talk to her through msn, and she said she didn't go to the gig because i didn't called her.

then a couple of weeks later, i asked her out again, to a show (a led zeppelin tribute). first she said she wouldn't go, then she said she would go with a girlfriend, so i went and she was by herself. We didn't get to talk too much because of all the loud music, but i managed to get playful and did a lot of kino, and so i finally k-closed a couple of times.

Everything was going great, and so after the show she invited me to this party. we went but she was with her friends the whole time, now i know i'm the one to blame here because i didn't worked on my social skills, i didn't asked her to introduce me to her friends and all of those things, i could not handle the situation. all the time i was looking around for familiar faces, and although i found some friends there, i didn't get to hang out with a particular bunch. so my social status was shit. after the party i took her to her house and that's it, but she did said she wanted to hang out with me soon.

so i called her on wednesday to ask her out this saturday, i did this phone game and got a few laughs.

now a couple of hours before the date, we talked on msn and it went like this:

me: hey bratty, are you ready?
her: no, haha
me: haha, and why is that?
her: i got food poisoned
me: so i guess you must be shitting watter then
her: hahaha, well that was yesterday, it was horrible.
me: bad luck... so i'll see you at ''whatever place'' at 4:30?
her: no, hahaha, i don't feel that well
me: i promise you'll feel better if you go.

that was the end of the conversation, i called her exactly at 4:30 and she didn't answered.

i really don't believe she got food poisoned, i think she may not be as attracted to me as she was at first, maybe it was because of what happened on the party, maybe it was because she wanted me to call her on the phone again and not through msn, maybe... well i don't know, but i just don't believe in that food poisoning story.

this thing got me really confused so i don't know what to do now, should i ask her out again?, should i forget about this girl?

i need a little help here please...

oh and yeah as you can see english is not my main language XD.


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 12, 2009 7:06 pm 
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From the beginning, you didn't create enough attraction before moving to higher stages.

The first example you said was that she stood you up when you invited her somewhere. Everything after that doesn't matter- she stood you up. Right there, you should be trying to figuring out why it isn't working. You assumed that she was ready to advance, but you did not lay a strong enough foundation with her before you did.

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