I need to get back on the scene again.

I don't really go clubs so I guess thats pretty much out the question.

I do however work at an airport with hundreds of gorgeous passengers.

I just don't know how to give myself a push and talk to these girls..

I've been feeling alittle shitty past few months so haven't done any approaching.

I don't have a problem with talking to them, I just can't be bothered at times.

How can I get that inspiration to start me off again??

Ok, I'm not gloating here and if it comes across like this then apologies but I get told I'm a good looking bloke and do get checked out by girls but I lack that urge to pursue anything..

Also when I chat to girls, I go in cocky but not arrogant...Is this a good way?

Any suggestions will be helpful.

Thanks

P.S. Does anyone have any good openers working in an airport environment??

Hmm, well can't neccessarily help in the airport environment, but maybe even find a neg about the places they've been but wait for someone who's better at this shit than me!

Anyway if you're not into clubs then work on day game instead. Outside an airport there's book shops, libraries if you want the more bookish girls, there's also pubs/bars I guess, art galleries if thats your thing. Hell, even a supermarket can be your playground, you just gotta practice. Best place to start is just looking direct in their eyes and giving a smile. If they smile back as you're walking along you don't need to think of a line, just 'Hi, hows it going?' and then just flirt their ass back to the stone age!

I'm sure people will go into more detail elsewhere but an airport sounds perfect, so many things you can talk about, travelling, world cultures, experiences, your experience going abroad, theirs. There must have been stories that made you laugh. Just need to know how to open them up, which buddy, means practice!

Good luck.

Its all your own fault for not making more things happen, just by saying something like "I don't really go clubs so I guess thats pretty much out the question." Go to a damn club and make something happen.

A corner stone for NLP is "If something doesnt work do something else."

I think reding Neil Strauss "rules of the game" would be good for you!

Good pick up is all in your head, so saying that you "been feeling alittle shitty past few months " is probably another reason you havent had that much success, read some NLP book and learn how to build up a solid confidence from the ground!

As for going cocky, being cocky is kind of useless if you don't come off as funny to, David DeAngelo has plenty of videos on youtube in how to improve this!

Also start to say at least "hi" to every beautiful girl you see, since you work at an airport this should be a lot so get busy!

Everytime you interact with a woman (it doesn't matter if its the fat lady in the supermarket) your goal should be to make her smile!

Also - do you have any female friends? If you have a good female friend that is not a family member, invite her out for dinner or coffee. Its just practice but it will work well as warmup, you can get used to talking to women this way.

Now get busy man!

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Ever consider that maybe HE DOESN"T FUCKIN LIKE CLUBS? Maybe thats why he doesn't go to them. Theres two clubs around town here and I'd still prefer the numerous bars around here......then again I always have to work >_>

I'm not saying they're for everyone but I didn't used to like them but the more I went the more I enjoyed it. Don't poo poo something 'til you give it a go.

Starting to get attention while at them is a good motivator.

Like I said, if one thing doesn't work then try something else. Maybe if you improve your club game or find a fun crew of friend to hit the clubs with, then maybe you will LOVE clubs.

Things are what you make them..

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No, I wouldn't fit in with the whole club scene.....bars, however, sure. Reason I say I dont fit in is because......I'm a rocker/metalhead (long...long hair, leather jacket, and that sort) and most people who go to clubs are into rap (its ok, but not something I get into) and dress the part.....not my thing.