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| newbie123 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 4:48 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 08, 2009 12:03 pm Posts: 5 | | Ok, so i got this date with a super cute, but very innocent, girl this weekend, 100% due to tips i read on this board.
So heres the background. Very cute girl. Innocent. Not sure if she has even had a boyfriend.
We have been friends from a distance (eating lunch together, saying hi in between classes) and just recently started being better friends. I would pursue her and she would brush me off. Then I started hanging out with this other cute girl and then she started showing interest. She asked me to go to some events with her and would send me texts asking what i am up to. But sometimes when we would plan to do something together she would cancel at the last minute. But we have done a few things together. But I try to make some casual physical contact with her to get some feedback (such as pressing my shoulder against hers when we are sitting at a bar when theres something funny going on) but not getting much/any reciprication.
At any rate, I finally am getting to take her to out. Any tips on how to handle this? I feel like if i come on too aggressive it will totally scare her off. I think she is somewhat interested, or at least bored and wanting some social activities, but not sure if she sees theres anything more. And she seems the really innocent type so you have to go slow? But she is definitely worth the effort and investment.
Help!!!
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| Rome-EO | PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:37 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Oct 07, 2009 3:53 am Posts: 79 | | well its deffinitlly interesting that she finally started really seeming interested only after you had another girl on the line kinda thing. in a situation like this your going to have to do some reading and put a quick cram sesh in before you go out but i think what your gonna wanna be doing is just running through your a2-a3 im not sure if you know what these mean but ive been asked before some im just going to go ahead and post them better safe then sorry sounds like time is of the essance.
a2- this is the phase in which your trying to have her devlop attraction in you running C/F and push pull methods dhv stories bascially establishing alpha qualities, unfortunatly body language is also pretty important but hard to get down in just 1 day but practice not slouching and keep your hands out of your pockets never cross your arms.
a3- this is where your going to send signs to her that your interested sounds easy right? dont skip this step she needs to know that she has earned your attraction this is also the phase i would recomend starting your basic kino.. you and use routines like whats your sign?
girl: cancer
guy: omg we cant talk
girl: why?
guy: we would just have to much in common, and i can already tell your bad news anyways.
keep your a2 secion and your a3 section up on your date the entire time just back-forth flirting the entire time this will drive up her buying temp... if you can isolate her i want you to start your c1
C1-this is the stage where you let her know you have connections and basically are just being yourself talk real with her likes dislikes blah blah blah the stuff you would think your suppose to be doing on the date. DO THAT AFTER THE DATE, you want to seem really fun and exciting outside of eating lunch and what not more fun on like a one on one level. anyways if you wanna take it slow i wouldnt go to much further then C1, oh yeah...
sorry for the lengthy reply alot of info to try and cram in but yeah... good luck let me know how it goes.
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| newbie123 | PostPosted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:53 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Oct 08, 2009 12:03 pm Posts: 5 | | thanks. so when you are doing a-2 a-3 are you still doing the funny cocky stuff?
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