so youve k-closed this girl a few times...you know shes kinda into you...you freeze her out for a few days because she deserved it (for what ever reason)...you see her out at a club....she kisses someone in front of you purposely (jealousy plot to make you react and test if you are still into her).

now...the usual rule of thumb is to remain unaffected...even though it may make you fucking angry inside, just remain cool and get on with your night and have a blast.

now i have always wondered about the following routes one could take and im interested in hearing what you would do...

1. you show that you dont give a dam...this makes her want you even more. it will frustrate the hell out of her and you will have extremely high value as you have demonstrated that you were unaffected. she contacts you shortly thereafter and is now chasing you again.

2. you show that you dont give a dam...she now see's that you genuinely dont care about her and thinks you are not that into her...so she moves on! (ie. the backfire!)...keep in mind you really like this girl. what a pity to lose her this way.

3. You take a more alpha approach and communicate that what she did was unacceptable/disrespectful....if she is really into you she will enjoy this...you are a man going after what you want and not afraid to admit it. if shes not that into you, you maybe come across as jealous and needy. you probably lose.

So....what would YOU do...

IF and ONLY IF you know shes still into you, for a certain fact!, i'd go right up to her when she kisses that guy and say, "that looked cute, let's step it up a little." and make out with her right there.

if you're not too sure if shes into you completely, grab some girls from there, meet them and possible close them later, but somewhere in-between, take them over to ur lady friend and introduce her as an "old friend" and wink at her as you do this. it'll drive her FUCKING INSANE and at the same time earn urself some social proof.

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DON'T DRINK ! go to the toilets ... punch the wall a few times, get another girl and use her to make her fucking jaleous ..... even if she's your ex she will be jaleous...


YEP ..... you can also tell a group of girls they are very cool ( Do HB 10's ) give them some free drinks and tell them your gay and kino-ping like crazy , she is seeing you with this band of hot girls.... her self esteem will drop right under her. of course the HB 10's will think '' this guy is dumb he is gay and giving us free drinks'' but who cares. 4 Hot girls make more of a statement instead of 1 girl
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one experience from me.... i dumped a girl recently but later we got back together and later on she dumped me..... anyway i still knew she was kinda in to me because she gave Kino IOI by the 7 and accepted kino on certain places. Later on she freezed me out and was hanging around with this guy... i didn't realize but what she was really doing was testing me so i was acting jaleous and failed her test - Being jaleous really quickly is a total DLV.
A few hours later i laughed and pretended i didn't give a shit but she already knew i was in to her ..... So i grabbed one of her girlfriends and totally gamed her - walked back to her with her own friend on my arm...

The look on her face .... priceless

if you get ever dumped by a girl ... or a quitte insulting freeze out ... Just game one of their female friends !

imma try that

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thanks for the response...

its all very well making her jealous...there are many ways one can go about this (by the way i like the gay tactic)...however once you have achieved this...where from there.

You dont want to do this to simply see the look on her face, you want something to transpire from your tactic.

She will either react and say whats up with that shit? ie. what are you doing gaming those women/my friends etc etc. this is when you have hooked her..

OR

she is a VERY proud women, and even though she is affected....is unreactive (and carries on kissing this other guy to get back at you!).

this can backfire as you can see...you pretty much need to HOPE that she reacts. if she doesnt...what then? (this is pretty much what happened to me...and i KNEW she was into me..it was frustrating as hell)

indeed, this has pretty much already been stated in my comment "You dont want to do this to simply see the look on her face, you want something to transpire from your tactic. ".

turning it into a childish revenge game is not what im looking for here...im looking for the best way to handle the situation. ie. maintain value, let her know she was out of line and that you give a dam...AND get her. Like i said, making her jealous may affect her emotionally, but getting her to react is a completely different ball game and will depend on the girl and how much she likes you.

the only thing i can think of is to say to her very calmly and smoothly with a grin/smirk on your face but quite firmly.. 'wow well that was pretty shit of you...' and then SMILE (im sure you get the effect im after here with the smile). Walk away calmly and spend time with other girls, leave her be for the night. You have made it clear that she fucked up but are not conveying that you are jealous/needy, the key is to remain completely and utterly COMPOSED. If she likes you she will either react and apologize and try to get back into your good books so that she has another chance with you... if she's a bit proud and doesnt react to your comment...do NOT contact her after that night at all...once again if she likes you she will eventually contact you as she now thinks she is really going to lose you....freeze her out for a while and whalla its back on...I can actually see that working! (well this would work in my situation with this girl anyway)

how will your actions show her she stepped out of line? ie. what actions

Im all for communicating by action, but in this case if you ignore it, you could lose her...if you grab her and kiss her in front of this dude...well that could be risky. briefly informing her that she f*cked up will plant a seed in her mind....and then freezing her out after that night will put her into a position whereby she MUST contact you, or she loses out. if shes into, she will contact you. And im not saying frame this whole plot around laying a guilt trip on her...but rather communicating that you dont have time for 2nd class behavior.

Find new hot babes from the club and start making out with them.
Fight fire with fire

[ Johnny B ]

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When you lose, don't lose the lesson. ~Author Unknown
Fear has a large shadow, but he himself is small. ~Ruth Gendler

yep thanks for elaborating Hobbit.