HB9 recently got dumped by bf, hesitant to hook up



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:23 am 
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There's this HB9 I worked with as recently as last week who I've been talking to lately. A few weeks ago, she invited me over to her place and I made a move but she got freaked out when I kissed her. She gave me enough IOIs (we were lying in bed spooning) and found out through mutual friends that she has the hots for me, but she cited that I was moving away soon and I just wanted to bang her b4 leaving (LMR). I played it cool, hung out for a bit more, and took off. After that, she made excuses to not hang out as much.

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Now that I'm 5 hrs away, she's told me she had just recently been dumped by her bf and that I moved too quickly for her comfort. But that she does have feelings for me. The ex dumped her but "still wants to hang out". She obviously still has feelings for him. What should my attitude be towards her? She's finally opened up about her ex and told me what is going on, so I'm in for a good BF destroyer routine. However, I don't want to fall into the LJBF category. Although she's long distance now, I can potentially see her one or two weekends per month. Is it even worth it or is it a lost cause now?

I actually do care about her and would like to position myself to start a relationship, even though it's long distance.
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 7:38 am 
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The word "Relationship" is a scary one for me
I advise you to look up Adam Lyons MLTR video.
That may help you out in this situation.
Cheers.


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