Ok, here's the deal. I'm recently divorced and have been out of the game for 6 years now, so I got a little rusty. This HB 9.5 that I used to date like 14 years ago googled my name and found my email and contacting me a few years back. She was married at the time too. She would call me out of the blue and want to meet for lunch every once in a while. After I got divorced she contacted me and told me her husband left her and I thought how convenient.

We started talking here and there and then I wouldn't hear back from her so I would leave it at that. Then a few months later she would contact me again and want to meet for lunch. This pattern was off and on for a few months. One minute she acts like I'm the man of her dreams the next she turns cold and distant.

So another 2 months go by and I see her online and said what's up to her. She got all excited and I ran the same c&f game and she would seem really interested. Two days later she calls me wanting to meet me for lunch, yet again. She lives an hour away so it really seems like she has an interest. All I really want is a good bang for old time sakes.

So I invite her to a party I was having and she was all excited about it. Then the day comes and she doesn't answer the phone and calls me back later that night. She cam up with some excuse that she couldn't make it so I told her I don't appreciate flakes and to call me at least ahead of time if she can't make it.

So then she asked if she can spend the following weekend because she had some charity shit to volunteer at and it was close to me. I made out with her but she wouldn't give it up. I'm thinking this broad is using me now. So her calls and texts get less frequent again so I played it cool and just sent her a random text like once a week. She wouldn't respond that night but would initiate a chat on facebook the next morning. I finally had a chance to go out there because I was visiting some family half way where she lived and told her I'd text her to see if she was up to hang.

Then she texts me and asked what I was doing and I text back, just chilling at my cousins. And hour later I get a text saying " so I text you and you don't text back? sad." I'm like wtf? So I sent another text saying I did respond, I'll just call.

She said she never got my text sounding all flakey and said she was going to a friends house to just watch a movie. Most likely a date. I told her that's cool, it's no big deal to me I'm having fun over here anyway. Then she cuts it all short and I haven't heard from her since.

I think she got the text messages and is just leading me on while she looks for or dates other people. I'm about to drop this broad, but want to know if any one thinks there's a chance to turn this crap around on her. This is a good warm up regardless after not having my player card for so long. Appreciate the input!

I can see you giving her too much interest. See how it got her 'intrigued' when you didn't tet back. Do that more. Get that mind set: You have a interesting and busy life. You would like to get to know her but wonT' go out of your way to do so. If she want to great, if not, no problem, there is a million like her out there.

Oh and reacting to her flakiness is no good. Tells her it affected you. You shoudn't be affected by this because you have other plans and you haev a fun life going on. Remember?

Cheers!

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