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I cannot be sure, but my gut tells me that Rounder is correct. Guys share a lot of the same switches with girls - not all the same switches, mind you.
For example, if you come off too alpha, you may intimidate a guy, so you'll have to be sensitive to that.
Women do not need to learn how to one-night-stand a guy because a woman can do that without trying. A woman needs to focus on building longterm attraction.
You must learn how to make the man think about you when you aren't around. I think Mystery talks about some techniques for this. As far as I know, creating this sort of affection and comfort is done by Cat String Theory, creating sexual tension, hinting at the sexual fantasies of men, staying mysterious, bouncing, as well as other tactics.

(If you've ever read Blink, you know that your Gut reaction can be just as good of a decision as your conscious mind)
Listen fellas, Im not saying to the Girl become all Alpha on the Guys. At least, for me, I don't find that The Game teaches guys how to be Alpha, but teaches how to attract. The blunt truth is, as I've been reading these forums a great deal, there are alot of people here that Dance. Thats far from Alpha. But I'll be damned if Dancing doesn't get women excited and attracted.
What I am saying is this, and bear with me please. Just imagine yourself in this situation:
You're sitting around with your buddies waiting for your class to begin. One of your friends waves a girl over. She's smiley, dressed nicely enough to grasp the attention of the man, but not sluty enough for men to say she looks like a slut!
You're all sitting down now. She chatting away with your friends, she turns to you, looks at you and asks your friend and says loud enough for you to hear "Is he always this quiet??

" and then she turns to you and says "Are you shy or something?" with a smile...You say "No, im just listening intently to your conversation with my buddy!" She says "Oh alright! You know, you'd look soo much cuter if you spiked your hair upwards a bit" and then she continues her conversation with your buddy!
You get the picture......Im sorry, but if a Girl Gamed me the way I game Girls....It would work! Shit! Even now when I get negged it annoys me! And I know what they're doing!!!!