Basically me and a few mates have set up like a group date with some girls a friend of mine knows. We are going to a 5 star hotel in london in a suite, the girl who im thinking about moving to has a boyfriend already shes cute, and shes really rich. So my money i dont think will impress her to much. ive added her on facebook, ive spoken to her and she keeps reminding me of her boyfriend. ie. what u up to? just coming back from the boyfriends you?. i added her on msn. i dont know what to do now we are all meeting on saturday.

maybe i should get her number?? any convo starters?? text games? thanks

Hi Hi,
I think that this girl is not going to cheat there for there is no need for a boyfriend destroyer.
Heres a thought. Maybe try and get with one of her friends and creat a jealousy plot line.

hmm well we are all going shopping together before. so maybe get really close with her online then in real life try and get with one of her friends?. And also ive seen a picture of her boyfriend and hes really not up to my level. maybe i could play on this?

Rite buddy first dealing with the bit ive quoted. Your game shouldnt revolve around the money you have. You should come across able to provide and look after her which gives you social value but flashing the cash brings you only one type of woman. Your game should revolve around the social side which is what you asked for at the end and im happy to oblige. Its just worth mentioning that as long as you are clean and presentable you have ticked a box for most women.

Ive got a small thread going on at the moment about gaming taken women, just click on my name and go to the thread with the obvious title.

However one to one, i recently tryed this with a taken girl, i play the ten question game. Basicaly its a set of ten questions that can be about anything. If she agrees to play she has to answer all of the questions asked and answer them honestly. However she may pass on one and only one (This provides a comfort factor for her as well as you asking if she agrees to the rules she also feels she can pass if she does not like the question)(Dont abuse it tho if she refuses to answer a question dont ask her it again). You ask each other a question alternatively, while progressively making the questions more difficult. The aim for both of you is to start with an easy question i.e 'Whats your favorite food.' And end in a realy hard question for each of you to answer (Its up to you how far you want to take that) Now this game needs to be fluffed a bit, such as 'what is said in the game stays in the game', make it competitive by joking that you 'can definately make her pass one question' and any other banter you think is appropriate.

This game works because it encompasses all of the middle section of a pick up. It includes, displaying higher value (with how you answer your questions) it builds comfort (through sharing information equaly) and you can also establish slightly sexual chat between the two of you (with well placed questions) Its all down to your attitude stay layed back and the tone of your voice slow and relaxed.
Its worked for me and i quote " its realy strange im never this willing to talk about myself with anyone" wait for it.. "even with my boyfriend".

If you like try it

Regards, Saint

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Thanks saint that was really helpfull. I was reading a few topics on boyfriend destroying. i was a bit confused as to if i should completely ingnore the fact that she had a boyfriend and even when she mentions him ignore.

Earlier in the year i used a boyfriend destroyer and got the girl into a serious relationship with me. i did this by completely ignoring the fact she had a boyfriend and when she neg'd him i would come back on a neutral comment.

but a few other posts i have been reading say that i should try and get her to talk about him and try and say things to make me come on top in comparison. I dont really want to sound like a player or too arogant which is my usual girl, as this girl is alot higher in class.