Hey everyone I am a guy 17 years old. I have never really had a girlfriend and it is really starting to bug me.

I have had girls that liked me before but I have never returned the feelings. Every girl I have liked hasn't liked me or I have been too nervous to ask them out (Im normally very outgoing). Its sorta starting to make me feel like "THAT GUY" that can never get dates you know?
I also feel like id be boring for the girl to hangout with for dates since i like just chillin and stuff i dont really like going and doing WAY RADICAL things. i mean ill try new stuff but im not WAY spontaneous - i like to sit and chat.
also, ive never really kissed a girl or done physical things with em so thats another reason im scared of it - im scared that ill suck at it.
I have always been seen as the "hilarious and friendly but just a really good friend" - i seem uncapable of having someone be wayy attracted to me from the offset you know?

I know I am not respecting myself but how do I begin to fix this? I put a lot of self-worth based on how good I am with women, so its tough.

I tend to overanalyze a lot and end up getting real nervous. I'm taking the SAT tomorrow, and wanna work on getting to know some girls help me out. I dont want to just walk randomly up - maybe to a girl in my room where we can actually talk about something. How can I NATURALLY build kino when I first meet them and be interesting? My friends get girls to be ALL over them and call em, and I normally have to chase them and they get freaked out.

thanks in advance lemme know if you want more details!

anyone?