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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 11:41 am 
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I met this hb on saturday night and we exchanged numbers... do i wait on her to call me or do i call her...

If i call her how long do i wait before i call her?


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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 1:01 pm 
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Call her very soon before she forgets how much of a good time she had with you! And never ask for a Day 2 on the first call/ text. Keep it short to like 10 min.


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she won't call you.

so why would waiting be an option?

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If you built a lot of attraction between the both you can call the very next day or text. I would text something first that is interesting, like you two have something in common or if she told you what she was doing the next day ask her how it went. Making a phone call first is kind of sketch if you two did not exchange numbers first, some girls if you call them wont answer the phone or wont call back to see who it is since they don't recognize the number.

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Call her within 3 days, as anything longer than that and she is bound to forget about you.


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I met this hb on saturday night and we exchanged numbers... do i wait on her to call me or do i call her...

If i call her how long do i wait before i call her?
If the interaction between you two was WEAK than i would preffer to wait a week before calling. In my opinion this is better strategy to get her on the phone ( in this situation )- it looks desperate if you call her immediately after such an insignificant interaction. Most guys starts to think when they hear this that " But if the chemistry was weak between us than isnt that better that i call her the next day so she wouldnt " forget " me / so i could keep the flame eaven a bit burning ". You get the point.
BUT however, if the interaction between you two was GOOD/ GREAT than i would call her within the next comign days. Every day that you dont make the call is another opportunity for her to meet somebody/ something to happen in her life.

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It really depends on your interaction.

Id call her today.

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