So I have been on about five dates with this girl... we have hooked up and all that... great times... but over the weekends sometimes she goes flaky and doesn't get back to me with texts... I wait for her and she then gets back later during the week. What's up with this? I think I like her more than she likes me... also I need her to show me that shes interested in me more then just going on these dates... Classic I think I like her more than shes likes me scenario... how should I handle?

You are down the 'She's more valuable then me' spiral. You have set the tone through your other 5 dates (maybe I'm wrong but that's the vibe I'm gettin) that she is the prize. Dou you always do the invites? Re-initiates the talks? Do the first texting? You chased too much, you don't seem valuable.

BTW, texts sucks. Call.

Oh, and how did it feel when she didn't answer your texts? Did it lessen or highten your desire of her? That's why you have to do all this to girls... be busy sometimes, be unavailable, push-pull, cat string, don't show neediness, don't put her on a pedestal... Raise YOUR value. She will chase you then (or you will mutualy chase each other :P)

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Make perfect sense J - I do feel like I am giving her to much value and need to increase mine - She has initiated some invites/dates... When she doesn't text back def heightens my desire for her... I know not to text that much... frankly I do better on the phone anyways... What should be my next move... just lay off for awhile and she if she gets back? What if she doesn't when should I call her? Last time we saw each other was wed night thursday morning... thanks again man - I think its best to see where she takes all this -

Maybe laying off could be an idea just for the moment but frankly if it starts turning to shit, learn from your mistakes and move on.

If she doesn't get back, it either means she's shouting at the phone expecting you to call or she's lost interest. If she's being flaky then I wouldn't be surprised if it's the latter.

Sorry to piss on your dreams pal. But never know it could work out...

Makes Sense - She's done it before... being flaky that is... agree with you... prob need to move on. If she doesn't get back maybe Ill call on later in the week but Ill see how I feel... thank you for posting