knew this girl a couple of weeks ago and recently we've been chatting on MSN

she has been asking me stuffs like how to write a good resume, how to fill those online job application form, how to prepare for interviews and so and so.. and it seems a bit hard for me to start other topics..

Any hints for that??

here's a really handy tip.

stop talking about what happened, and try to mix things up. ask her things. open with a youtube video, something REALLY funny yet compelling. think out side the
*hey, how're you, what'cha doing* routine

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move fast enough, and you can move people from one *normal* to another.

I managed to get a girl to fall in love with me just over msn, no fucking clue how! This was before I discovered PU!

But basically if she starts asking if you like her, one thing I did was never give her a straight answer. Stuff like 'Do you like me?' 'Yeah I get on with you ok' etc. Never a straight answer while still being flirty.

Thanks for tips~ Will try that out and have to look for a funny youtube video now

Another question: she doesn't often give me quick reply, which makes me feel a bit hard to chat around with her so that I can date her out. Do you have any hints for that??

Sorry for PUA cause I'm still an inexperienced idiot.

Don't give her a quick reply... take longer, generally it will make her respond quicker.

she's a girl right? a decently hot girl. If she's not psycho, she's also probably talking to other people, or listening to music, or watching tv, or SOMETHING at the same time as she's chatting to you. multitasking! Women are famous for it aren't they?

unless you grab her attention somehow, it is probably expected. Don't panic, its normal

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today i sent her a funny youtube video on msn but it doesnt go well...

she just replied "hahaha" & "funny". it's so discouraging

what vid did you use?

personally, i just go with a stand-up comedian, because he's got the jokes that really mean something. tell me what you did, step by step, as much as you can remember

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move fast enough, and you can move people from one *normal* to another.

i used mr.inappropriate video on youtube. Just sent her the link and said "hey. hv a look. it's sooo funny!!"

Then I got the "hahahaha" reply

Maybe she's busy at that time. But have I done anything wrong?? Or I picked the wrong wideo??

i watched 2 minutes of the first video i found after googling that guy, and i might have chosen a bad clip, but sorry. He wasn't funny, merely childish


BUT THATS NOT THE POINT! when you get a response, its your cue to *TALK*
communicate. I only suggested the youtube video as an *opener*

If you don't know what to say: its all over this forum. DHVs and Negs, along with c/f, the routine stuff.

one thing to note: something I noticed I did was that I would constantly write more than the girl did. That's not good. try to keep it at a similar level.


Relax dude most of the girls I know don't have insane amounts of free time. It might just have been a bad time.

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move fast enough, and you can move people from one *normal* to another.