okay.. i got this friend of mine who birthday is coming up and i have a crush on her and i don't wanna mess it up. first off i'm not a pick up artist i just wanna have more game. haha. she gives me a lot of IOI and stuff but i'm not sure if she likes me or just trying to be a postive influence in my life because i just got off drugs. it been a month now. =]. but i used to party with this girl a long time ago and when she found out i was trying to get clean she been hitting me up and asking me if i wanna read scripture from the bible with her and stuff. i guess what i like most about her is that she believes in me. no one else do 'cause i relapse so many time. but do yall think it'd be okay if i get her a gift? it won't be anything expensive. i was thinking like a bethoven cd 'cause we were talking and she said classical music help her study. so it be thoughtful but cheap at the same time. what do yall think? thanks in advance for helping me out.

From what you describe it as I would buy her something small and thoughtfull, birthdays are not suitable days to fuck with peoples emotions.
Just make sure you dont turn her in to your oneitis, so stay cool!

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birthday gifts are only try hard when its unnecessarily expensive or hard to obtain.

hell, i got a girl a muffin from 7/11 on her birthday after she reminded me it was her birthday and she loved it, regardless of it costing less than $2 and totally being stupid haha


people take presents too seriously sometimes.

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Women assign value to a gift based on how much though and trouble they think you went to so something cheap that has special meaning to you both would be ideal.

With a CD present I guess you could even try a little NLP, get her to play it straight away and as its playing game her a little. Basically anchor a bunch of positive emotions about you to the music so that she will feel these whenever she plays it.

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thank guys. yall are awesome.