This will be like a field report of my first try to play the game. Please notify me if I´m writing to detailed and long.

Three girls were having a big birthday party celebrating they getting 18. One of these girls is my classmate so I was one of the 200 happy invited. My goal with the night was to try some of the things I´ve learned from the game and hopefully get som kind of close. Also I was going to dance like a crazy person all night long and have a really good time.

Anyway the evening started out with a warm-up party with som friends in my apartment. After a while we walked over to another preparty with a bunch of AFC:s who drowned their hidden bad confidence with beer while watching ice hockey. Because people under eighteen (which I am) arent legeally allowed to drink, their was supposed to be an alcotest in the door before entering the party, so I just thought "what the hell, a don´t need any alcohol to have fun and talk to girls. I will have more fun than these guys anyway.".

While at the party I of course started to dance with various of girls, wich I think is the easiest way to meet new girls, because you don´t need so much finesse. I knew my classmate (one of the birthday girls), lets call her M, is kind of into me and I really noticed that when we danced. I got IOI:s all the time, but since I care for her as a friend and I don´t want any realationship at all I didn´t wanna give her wrong signals. So I tried to dance with other girls and it went pretty good, but M kept interupting in the more intimite parts like she was jelous. I found this to be a disturbing cockblock. Do anyone have som tricks and hints for situations like this?

Lets go to what we can call the second set for the night. I was outside for som air when I saw a pretty drunk friend with to girls, pointing at them and saying their names in an attempt to remember them. The girls looked a bit bothered so I walked up and sent him away while saying.
Me: Let me try. It´s U and J right? (I´ve overheard their conversation and catched up their names)
Both girls was pretty hot, but U were my target.
U: I know you. I´ve seen you in the school catalog your in M:s class. What was your name?
Me: (Introduced me) Yes I am in M:s class. Are you friends with her?
They: Yes we were in her former class before she changed to yours. (or someting like that)
Anyway they asked if I wanted to go for a walk and when we started walking the friend J sort of drifted away and left us alone on a park bench.
U: She is trying to get us together.
Me: Well great (thinking: Yeay, isolated without any effort)
So we just fluffed for a while. And it came very easy and natural and she was really trying to keep the conversation alive. IOI right? She also kinda leaned her legs against me. I thought that now it´s time to go KINO, but a couldn´t really find a way to do it so it seemed natural. Besides there was a couple of drunk "friends" around to interupt. So I chickened out.
Her friends: We´re going now. Are you coming?
U: Yeah I´m coming after you (kinda delaying. An IOI I thought)
Her friend: Change numbers
So we did change numbers. And when she was leaving I thought of doing Mysterys: Kiss godby?, but I chickened out again, so I just hugged her.
I think I need som inprovment in the phase shift. It feels wrong that her friend suggested the number close. And I´m disapointed in myself for chickening out on the good stuff.

After this I was in a big party mood and we continued to dance till the DJ quit. Then I just shouted "afterparty in my appartment lets get as many as we can in there!" It became a great close of the night and everyone had a good time. I also practised some magictricks for M and she was really amazed.

When everybody had gone home and it was only me and M left. She asked if she could sleep over and I said yes without really thinking. We started talking a lot and it turned out that she also didn´t want any relationship and was like me when it comes to always handeling first and thinking after. So we went to bed and started making out and while doing the underwear rubbing you know. I felt that I really have to pee so I just said "hold that thought" and went to the bathroom. In there I noticed tendenses to red stains on my underwear, so assumed it wasn´t really the right week for a full close. And I was right. When I came back, she said "I hate this but I cant right now, I´m having my period.".

Okay maybe I´ve been to detailed but It´s my first report. Do you have any ideas what I can do better? Especially in the phase shift part. I´d be glad for any answer.

//Woolgatherer

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“Everything starts as somebody's daydream.” - Larry Niven

I just read the subject line.

I think you should just dive into women head first.

I don't think having a rule book is good for you.

I think you should just go out there and meet women and talk with them.

Meeting women in a Bar/Club is different than in the real world.

The whole reality is different, and PUA is built around the BAR club scence.

Be careful. This is dangerous stuff and you can be really fucked up if you don't head my warnings.

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Walk Hard

awwwwwwww man you could have totally k-closed that! call her or text her to meet again. im new to this as well but ive learned that whatever you do dont chicken out!
thats my best advice: DONT CHICKEN OUT. EVER.


hope it helps

To Ghastly: Yeah I probably could, and it really bugs me that I didn´t. I´m actually chatting with her right now. We´ll see what happens

To magnum: That´s good advice and I agree. I´m not really looking for a complete guidebook, but it´s good to have some aces up your sleve if you get stuck.

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“Everything starts as somebody's daydream.” - Larry Niven