Met a really cute girl in a cafe about 2 weeks ago. I walked straight up to her table confidently, sat down, gave her a little compliment on her skin - nice line i learnt here - introduced myself and we had a great chat for about half an hour. Anyway, we've had 3 meet ups since then but I just feel that it isn't going anywhere.

I know the first thing you guys will say is that its oneitis and to find someone else but if I really like a certain girl, why not try to get her?

So, anyway, we met up last night around 8, at a club that I'm not particularly fond of(too loud to really connect with her) We danced for a while, lots of kino, ass touching, etc. I suggest we leave and go someplace more intimate, possibly crack open a bottle of bubbly. She seemed to think this was a good idea so we drove off to my yacht.

The sun was just settings, and the red and blue hues in the distant sky, framed by the crashing waves of the ocean were the perfect backdrop for my brand new yacht. This baby is equipped with all mod cons so to speak, including essentially, a fridge and a bed. She'd also mentioned she'd never been on a yacht before so I thought this would be a pretty cool way of bringing her into "my world."

Anyway, I thought things were running smoothly but even after a few drinks and some passionate kissing she insisted upon not removing her clothing. She even protested stripping down to her undergarments, something about fear of catching a virus. I assured her this wasn't possible, and even turned her on to some more modern methods of protection, but she would have none of it.

Basically I just feel like she'll make up any excuse not to have sex with me. I've already laid down all my best moves and she didn't seem that impressed. Later in the night she just got up and left hurriedly like the whole thing had meant nothing to her. Now here's the strangest part. She started iming me today, and was immediately very sexual. I played along and eventually she came out and said 'wanna fuck?' I said of course and when, she said to meet her thursday and quickly signed off. What's my next move????

She's giving you the hot/cold SPAM. Very textbook coquettish. Does that mean that she isn't interested? No. What are the best ways to counter this? Well I doubt that anyone has that answer. I would try a few things:

1) YOU have to become the catch. Be busy, hint at other women being interested in you, etc.

2) Give her the hot/cold SPAM. Especialy regarding sexualy. Right now she knows she has you by the balls by hinting and denying sex to you. Do the same. Arouse her, smell her neck, caress her har and when she is ready to kiss, pull away. Go at it again, arouse her again (she should be quickly aroused), when about to kiss ask her playfully something like 'You will have to ask nicely to get a kiss'. If she says no, then just pull away a bit and keep arising her. Ask her again until she does. Build anticipation.

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Are you out of your mind? If this chick realizes you're loaded, she's gonna hit you up hard for money. She's probably out, right now, as we speak, poking holes in condoms and just dreaming about the hefty child support payment you'll be handing over to her and that bastard you created every month. Beware, take care.

Thanks, TheJ and Mike. Particularly you, TheJ. I used your hard to get advice and it paid off in dividends. It wasn't so hard really, I used a combination of manufactured and real excuses(some work related, others social) and it seemed to increase her interest in me tenfold. We've had casual encounters since my last posting and she even jerked me off. Still no F-close, though. I'm working on it. Any advice, fellas?

She's holding out because she wants a relationship. TheJ has the right idea, make yourself into the catch. Only other option is to lie and play relationshippy

After some more thought, I take it back. You have oneitis. The only cure is to fuck someone hotter/smarter than her.