| Try doing some games with her. Tell you have something to show her, or you want to try something you learned the other day. She will probably oblige, and tell her to close her eyes, and give you her hands. If she hesitates, say "You don't trust me?" or "You can try it on me after". It is important that she feels comfortable with you. Then once she closes her eyes, tell her to think of a number between 1 and 10, and take her hands, put your thumbs in her palms and rub them. The number they usually pick is 7. But if you get it wrong, its not a big deal at all, say "So much for those magic classes I took" or "I just blew 60$ for magic classes" etc. Now get her to try it on you, or move on and chat for a bit.
There are also other things you can talk about, besides doing magic tricks. Try to keep her interested and hooked, tell interesting anecdotes about yourself (don't be afraid to tell fake stories here if necessary) or something like that. Just avoid the cliche questions she probably gets from thousands of other guys, like "So, where are you from?", "What classes do you have?", "How old are you?" etc.
And as for the kiss close, save that for last. If you do that right away and it doesn't work out, it will ruin anything after that. She also might not feel comfortable with you at that point. Wait until you have to go (try to leave early, even if you don't have to go, right when she is getting most into you - this leaves her wanting more) and say something like "I have to go... good bye kiss?" or "would you like to kiss me?". These will take some courage to say at first because of fear of rejection (it is buried in our minds) but once you get up the courage to do it, which is something I am working on too, if you have done everything right up to this point, she will definitely want to kiss you.
Just remember: Be interesting, different in a good way, and mysterious.
I am new to this too, but trying to work through a few sticking points. This is what I have read in a couple articles.
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