I went out with a HB7 for a short period of time about a month ago.
It turned out that neither of us wanted anything that serious, so we broke it off after a couple of weeks. Now here is where I'm a bit confused.

at a party with her a few nights ago, she's confessed to me that she still really wants to fool around with me, without anything serious going on, BUT she's worried this will result in one of us getting hurt as time goes on.

when i say this girl confessed she wanted to fool around, what i really mean is that she jumped me as i walked down a hallway by myself, i only just managed to maintain my composure and play it cool, because i don't want to seem as if i'm her slave (i was also pretty drunk and didn't want to destroy any future opportunities).

i'm seeing this girl tomorrow night at another party, and i really need some advice on how i can reassure her that just fooling around won't result in one of us getting hurt in the end. (really, i need to reassure her that SHE won't get hurt)

I'm 18, and i'm still a virgin, this girl is awesome, and i'm reasonably sure i could lose the v plates if i can pull this off.

how can i start something casual, when the girl worries about getting hurt?
any advice would be appreciated.

gonzo.

"nothings going to happen that we both don't want to happen"

don't focus on 'reassuring her none of us will get hurt' so much as disconnect the act with any future results. get her to live in the moment and get what she wants

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