Hey guys, that's my first thread and I didnt know where to post that.

Before I ask my question, I just wanna say that I'm not looking for an advice about what action I should do. I made my decision a long time ago and I'm happy with that.

There is that girl, who is a great 10 and she knows it, with whom I had a date more than 1 year ago. She is the friend of a good friend, I talked to her on
the Internet, blablabla. When I dated her, I had the 10 elements that you would notice when a girl is not interested. It couldnt be more clear. So, I found a way to end the lunch (without any akward moment) because I knew it was going nowhere. 2 months later, I got news from my friend that she wanted to get news about me. So, I gave her some, and because I was coming back from a business trip, I had nothing planned, so I hung out with her another time. On that night, she really acted like a bitch and I told her.

It was a little bit more than 1 year ago. And since that time, she asked 2 or 3 times to my friend what I was doing. (I've never contacted her back, because if she wants to know something about me, ask me directlty.) I know there is no sexual attraction in that behaviour, it's very clear not me, I'm just wondering if there is a logical in that behaviour. I'm pretty sure that if I had answered her back, she wouldt even have answered me back.

Is it an ego-boost she is looking for?

See ya,

I say its pretty much an ego thing and for her to see if she can get you to "chase" her when she sends message via your friend when she wants the lastest "news" about you.