Well, here is the thing.. to get girls, you need to be alpha male, and to be alpha male some of the main aspects is being fun, smiling, happy and being in a good mood all the time.. it's DHV so that's one of the keys to success.. right

Now, is there something like "being happy/in the good mood over the top", because a month ago I started learning to be in a good mood all the time, and smiling etc, that was when I started learning the game.. Now when you start learning to be in a good mood you have to fake in the beginning right, just until you really adopt those good feelings and then you really become that moody/smiling person.
I am right now in that phase where I started being that moody/smiling person without acting, I'm adopting, and I don't even have to try anymore it's becoming something natural for me to be in a good mood, and whenever someone is asking me how are you I always respond "Super!" , and I am always in a good mood, feeling fine, and none of my problems (we all have them) cannot break that good vibe, because I don't let anything make me feel bad anymore... Even if something really bad happens, I try to get back to happy phase as soon as I can...

Now the question is: Is it normal to be in a good mood all the time, like you don't have any, even one, problems in your life? Because I started thinking, probably someone will look at me wierd sometimes, like "Man, look at him, he is a little confident and happy and smiling more than usual, it's not normal to be in that much good mood, righ."
I'm really not sure if you understand what I am trying to say... so imagine you know some person that is always happy and fun and smiling, and he/she just goes on your nerves because of it, why the f..k is he/she happy/smiling that much, whenever he talks to someone, whatever the subject is he is always smiling, it' not normal nobody can be that happy, he gotta be acting or something !!! He/she must stop being that crazy, and in a good wibe, I can't stand it. Get it?

It's just I feel strange feeling better than anyone else around me, so maybe someone can be harmed if he/she sees me in good mood always, but he/she has million problems...

Maybe it's really a stupid question, I'm not sure anymore ))

Nik

The thing that Style brought up is to enter a set with a higher energy level than the set itself. It looks like you've done that, and taken it to the point of, "why not always have high-energy?"
The caution I have against maintaining super-high energy is, yes, it can be percieved as fake. It's ok to show emotions, show frustration, show contemplation.
It's not exactly true that the alpha male is the smiley, happy-go-lucky leader.
The Alpha-Male is the ruler, and he doesn't have to be bouncing about with a perma-smile plastered on his face. He can rule with body language. Take for instance Mystery Method. He does not bounce into a set, zip through a routine, and make sure he's super animated. No, on the contrary he stays aloof, mysterious, and appears to be the challenge for any alpha male, and alpha female.
Try toning it down if you feel like you're being overly bubbly. And remember you don't have to be the kid everyone thinks should be on ritilan.
Cheers,
JONAS

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Like my teacher in high school was saying:" There is no stupid questions.... only stupid people" ;)

Short answer: No.

Longer answer, flip it around; Who would you rather be with? A cheerfull guy, always in a good mood, or a guys with mood swings somedays happy somedays gloomy?

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Pfft, that is not true. I am feeling great 99% of the time, even when problems occur. I am extremely optimistic, and thus it shows free. This doesn't mean I can get annoyed however, but a good mood is contagious.

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This is all opinion, but if I saw someone that happy, I agree, that I would think you were faking it. I would not be interested in hanging out with someone who cannot get frustrated and cyncial once in a while. This is just me, and if you are truely happy being an unfaltering optimist, then 'go you'!

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