i graduated from high school recently and am 19 years old, i dont currently go to any school SPAM, and not sure where i can really go out to meet some girls since i cant really go to any of the clubs or bars around here since im not 21 which is a major bust, just at that bad age i guess, was wondering if anyone has some pointers on what i can do? (i sadly live in orange county CA if it helps any)

--- im also the "quiet" guy in the group if anyone has any pointers for working on that or can link me to threads i cant seem to find SPAM for help id greatly appreciate it!

beach, mall

or

(here's a brilliant fucking idea)

GO TO COLLEGE!!!




hi, So Cal! I'm Nor Cal!

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cant afford college SPAM man not even a CC it sux otherwise i would, thx for advice tho

College is a joke. 90% of the people in America who go are simply going because they think you are supposed to go. Unless you want to be a doctor, teacher, etc. don't go. EVERY barista in EVERY American Starbucks either has or is a few hours away from having a graduate degree. Do you really need a Master's degree in Art Appreciation in order to make a subpar espresso?

My advice is to study Russian and head for Ukraine. It will be an adventure that will change you for the better. You will get girls you have never seen in America, but more importantly you will gain an amazing amount of confidence and toughness. Men back home might think you are crazy but deep down they will wish they had the balls to do it. Or, you can go to college and end up being that 35 year old man with two ugly kids, a fat bitchy middle-aged wife, mortgage, car payments, etc. Your choice.

Live your own life. Ignore society. Don't hurt others and NEVER follow the crowd.

When was the last time you saw a hot girl? Where was she? Go there!!

You can meet girls everywhere! stores, coffee shops, bus stops, work. as long as you are not blind I don't see the problem!

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Exactly. Some of my favorite places to meet people rarely involve alcohol.
I meet girls biking, or skateboarding on the waterfront in my city, if that's something available in Orange County.
Or try hobby shops, all-age concerts, book stores, things like that...
Cheers dude.

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The only place I could think would be the YMCA....or the bars...

that's why they have tuition assistance and EOPS.


and to the person saying 'they feel they should' in general its a better idea. Never believe college is must have to be happy, but for certain job types it pretty much is.

and there is still no negative reason behind having a college degree.

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