i have went out a few times asking girls in shops questions and asking people for directions in the street and stuff. i dont know how to progress from this should i give girls in the street compliments then walk off or use an opener? any examples i feel like going direct but i dont think i have the confidence for that yet. i have read abit about zan who said u shuld stop approaching women and just give them compliments to make their day and let them respond to you.

i want to be a natural i dont want 2 start using routines. i have been 2 clubs a few times sober at night and the last time i managed to beat my aa and get 1 girl and k closed but i still feel a little uncomfortable in a club sober.

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Pimpin Aint Easy
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just fucking do it

why do you have to 'have the confidence' to do it?

whats it matter if you blow a few sets out?

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

Actually KN is kinda right lol


i feel to truly be confident with direct approaching you have to just go out and do it


you don't gain confidence with driving a car if you never have driven a car

you don't gain confidence until you have taken the steps to assure yourself
that your great, and you CAN do it


so best advice i can offer is go out there be direct and GENUINE(most guys i know say being genuine dose not matter and i can tell you now there not getting awesome women lol. When giving a compliment make sure you ACTUALLY, TRULY like that about her the compliment will mean much more and be much more effective don't fake it)
if you get turned down then just hold in there
you'll get some successful approaches and they will just keep adding up

best,

mike

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"Leave her better than you found her"

"Amateurs do it until they get it right, professionals keeping doing it until they cant get it wrong"