well i was at a party the other night. The girls house was stupid large, her dad has his own helicopter and picks her up from work? what IN the fuck.

i show up in my car with 4 good looking girls. 2 of them i have hooked up with. I was after the one ive hooked up with before (HB 9), but the other one thinks we have a *thing??*.the only one i got going was the the girl that owns the house HB 7, she was picking me up. i show up with a beer that needs an opener, she grabbed it and tried using her teeth, i dont even know this girl? she says commmon, well go to the house and open it for you!!! kino smiling blah blah iois. she came out of the bathroom while i was watching the band.

HB 7- what are you doing mr fickle.
Moi- watching your live band play.
HB 7- haha oh do you want me to get you another beer?
Moi- sure why not.
HB 7 puts her arm around me walking to the kitchen
HB 7- so you have to add me on facebook!!!
Moi- well see about that chickie.
HB 7- haha okay, do you have a cell phone?
Moi- yeah, are you trying to pick me up???? hahaha
HB 7- yeaaah of course hahaa*slight sarcsum, i knew it was true though.*

some people came in and i didnt give her my number, didnt want to.

went outside and HB 9 was with this one guy, didnt mind him at the start. but after he was holding hands with HB 9 he got really cocky, showing off his stomach LOL. the way he acted was really weird, putting his friends down, bragging like a mofo,acting in ways we would frown upon. i didnt amog, let him have his fun.
but yet he still got her to leave with him.

i left with her friend. we spooned.
she texts me the next day asking what i did with her friend.

Me- anal
HB 9- eww your grosss
HB 9- no but seriously what did you do with her?
Me- nothing.
HB 9- i didnt do anything with that guy.
Me- haha yeah because you were thinking about me all night
HB 9- lmao your so cocky its unreal.


-is that too cocky? to me it seems fine. but ive been hearing it alot lately, my last girl took cockyness like a pro. so i might have to calibrate.
- this girl seems somewhat scared of me, like she cant handle me? should i be vulnerable?
- should i tell her straight up me and her friend dont have a thing? or show her.
- after seeing her standards i feel above her?

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Well, read your own signature dude. Never change the person you are. Yes she is probably wary of you, because you have an astounding level of confidence. No, this is NOT a problem. There is a BIG difference between confidence, and arrogance, and people like us dance along the brink. The hardest part is keeping the balance. A general rule I use is that arrogant people put others down to build themselves up; confident and cocky people, are already up, and are bringing the rest of the crowd up with them. There has been MANY times where it seems like I overdo it, but it turns out to be the best. . . because I'm being the person I am. No restraints, no restrictions. If she cant handle it, thats her problem, you can get a girl who can.

But, let it be known, the chick wants you, she was seeing what you did with her friend the same reason we ask what our guy friends did with so and so. Most people dont like to shit in their friends bed, she wants you, but doesn't want to "take" you away from her friend.

As for what to do about the friend. . . I always say actions speak louder the words, get her over to your house. . . and have an amazing evening.

Peace and love,
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If it seems fine to you, don't change anything. Like you said, calibrate. If you think you are overdoing it and she is getting irritated, go ahead and tone it down. I am very confident in nature (and kind of cocky), but it's not forced. I am just naturally like that and girls point it out time and time again, but it has never been a problem for me. I've even had a close friend that is a girl tell me that the reason her friend likes me is because I do what I want. I am confident but collective. If you walk around saying "I'm the best, I'm the best, I'm the best" ALL THE TIME, I'm sure a girl would get irritated, but remember actions speak louder than words.
If the girl is somewhat "scared" of you, I'd say you need to work on comfort a bit more. She should feel open and safe around you depending on where in the relationship (or lack of) you are with her.
What was your plan on how you would show her?
What are you asking here? should you feel above her? Do you feel guilty you feel that way?

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Thanks Jav, 1 in the morning tends to make me forget to put the simple things in there that most people wouldn't know.

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wow, comfort is needed. how could i forget.

to show her we dont have a thing i should probably stop hangin out with her. probably stop cuddling too haha. i mangled this one for sure, but i can still learn from it.

should i feel above her after seeing who she left with? no guilt at all.

thanks for replys guys

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ahaha, no problem.









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