I'm a newbie. I had a pool party at my beach condo which turned out to be a great ratio, about 12 girls and 3 guys (nearly all friends). Ended up having 4 girls sleep over, but not in my bed (in other couches/beds around the house).

The major highlights:

1) After the pool party, a friend who's HB8 brunette 19yr old, wanted to take a nap in my bed. I laid down with her and began soft touching her back. This girl is a complete ALPHA-CHICK. She's very aggressive and dominate, and even though I know she has attraction for me, when I pursue her I think she loses attraction. So should I just let her game me?

How do I deal with an ALPHA GIRL?

2) The same girl HB8 brunette was on the patio with me later on, and I stupidly tried to neg her (for some odd reason, since we are already building comfort). She took it harshly and I could tell much attraction was lost, and she ended up leaving early (even though she told me she was staying over earlier in the day).

Is there any reason to neg in the comfort building stage?

3) I learned the some girls give "TOKEN" resistance to spending the night. 3 girls were about to leave, but my wing convinced them to stay by telling them "Go get chocolate ice cream and bring it back"-- Surprisingly, this worked.. Even though they previously were giving us excuses as to why they needed to leave. (I think they just needed ANY reason to stay besides just saying "stay").

4) I couldn't get any of them to sleep in my bed, mostly because they are all friends and I know that there was huge Anti-Slut defense going on. Even though I know I built attraction with 2 girls, the 3rd girl would judge the other 2 if she saw them sleeping in my bed.

5) I learned getting the girls to TICKLE me is a great way of KINO'ing. Just pretended like I didn't like it and they kept it going all night.

There's a bunch of other stuff I learned.. Even though it wasn't exactly a "success"

Any comments?