| Isolating is a hard part of the game. I might suggest these two routines.
First routine is The Cube Psychology test. Tell her you'd like to do it, but you'd like to do it somewhere quieter so you can hear her answers better. Once there build kinos by doing a little "push-pull"; meaning neg, then slight compliment.
You do your cube test and then you should be in. Style also says a good way to kiss-close is to do what he calls the triangle. It's where you stare at one eye, then the other, then the lips, without saying anything. This creates a sexual moment, and assuming you played your cards right she will try to initiate.
Second routine is good too, also coined by Style. He calls it The Bet. This is a game you may have heard of where you ask the girl if she wants to make a bet, usually for a drink or something small. When she agrees you tell her you will ask her five questions but she must lie on each question, if she answers truthfully, she owes you a drink, if she successfullly lies each time, you owe her a drink.
Ask her three mundane questions,
1. Hair color,
2. Shirt brand,
3. Her best friend's name,
Now pause and look confused and say, "Wait, was that three questions or four?"
If she helps you out and says "Three," she owes you a drink. If she catches on and says "EIGHT!!" then you smile and laugh and say, "Ah you got me, have you played this game before?" They always say "Nope!" -- "Good, that was my fifth question, and I'll take a long island." I also like to add for insult, "Go ahead and get yourself something too, and put it on your tab."
Close it up with some laughing and chemistry building. I think it's a good idea to fluff a little bit here, and talk plain to her. After an exaggeratted silence breaks in, make eye contact and ask her "Would you like to kiss me?" If she says yes, move in slowely. If she says "No, Maybe, I don't know..." Reply with "I wasn't saying you can, it just looks like you have something on your mind." And now she's thinking about it. She might even blush.
Style also says a good way to phase shift is to smell her hair, or her shoulders, (which I've never tried because to me that just sounds creepy...) and make a comment about how she smells, usually something complimentary. Sometimes I've heard it's ok to lightly kiss the neck before you kiss the lips.
Try things out, see how they work.
Cheers,
JONAS _________________ Beware the wrath of a patient man.
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