just got out of a long relationship and im havin trouble gettin my swagger back. Ive gone thru missin my ex stage, so im not real hung up on her anymore, but i still cant seem to get that mojo i had before back. I feel like my game is just off. What are some good ways to get it back help!! i dont wanna miss oppurtunity cuz i cant get my head in the game.

go out, party hard, approach plenty women. Im in the same position. I got back into it within about a month. It does take time as a break up can really f*ck your confidence (and your personality) up. Its only temporary though! go out alot and soon enough you'll find yourself again. After your first pickup (or two) you'll be golden.

Ohh, i've been there.

Your game is probably off because you're having trouble finding the right state. Your mojo isn't mojo anymore, but your State, the basics.. Try to find 'peace' with your environment again. Get comfortable with the fact that you're surrounded by women who are willing to be approached. Get yourself back into the play mood again by approaching every girl in the club. Create that body language that subconsciously opens everybody up talking to you, so you have to disarm a lot less bitchshields. Pick up that indifferent mindset again. Work on your attitude, your eye contact and kino escalation instead of trying to push those damn routine and lines through.

Try to be that Lion in the wild.. Be relaxed, ALPHA, comfortable in your surroundings and show your are worth it for the ladies by building up big time social proof. Become that Lion in the field. He isn't worried about his 'mojo'.

As long as you don't feel comfortable, girls around you will unconsciously feel it, and you'll make them uncomfortable. And the last thing a girl is thinking about when she's uncomfortable is sex. The first thing she'll be thinking about is getting the f..ckk out of there.

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The more symmetrical you are, the more orgasms you will give her.

the best advice i can give you is to pretend your ex is dead. I found this very helpful when i was a AFC a few years ago. Pretending she's dead worked because i allowed myself to miss her and think about it as much as i want, but i would avoid any thoughts about trying to get her back (becaue if she was dead, it would be impossible).

This really worked well for me because: while allowing myself to think about what we had helped me heal, I was forced to move on because i pretended that the possibility of getting backtogether with her was an impossibility.

this is the recipe for success in a breakup. i guarantee it.