Hi,

Basically i met an hb10 and hb9 last time out clubbing, had good comfort, dancing, kino with her... everything was good... told her id take her out to a really good restaurant that serves her food (shes serbian)... she was all for it blah blah... anyways i made a critical error in just grabbing her facebook instead of her #... i normally never do that... but ya she gave it to me...

I sent her a msg a few days later, she responded positively asking how the rest of my night went and how my week has been...

I responded with some fluff and followed up with asking her when shes free because i still owed her that dinner;)

she responded with "Haha my brothers coming down from Alberta soooo im outta commission for a couple weeks "

now... is that a complete rejection? a shit test possibly?

How should i respond to this if i should respond at all... Shes really fukin gorgeous so I dont want to let her blow by... what would be the smartest thing to do in this situation?

What do you owe her dinner for!?! Seriously think about that for a moment
do you think she'll have sex with you in return for being such a great guy and spending all your money on her. don't be a Trick.
yes she rejected you just walk away

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I agree with this but it could still be a shittest, you wont lose anything by giving it a shot right?

The whole 'one lost shot can't hurt' approach is primarily AFC. Cut the rope man, in a few weeks you can message her and see if she's still receptive, if she is then you can repeat without making the same mistakes.

The smartest thing to do would be to take it with a pinch of salt, learn your lesson, if you can't bear to let her slip away then push to be LJBF'd and use her as social proofing. A 10 social proofing = Godsend.

Goodluck man.

remember buddy - paying for a girls attention either with drinks at a bar, or food on the same night is just traditional-AFC moves..

James Roday has probably got the best idea - even if you manage a LJBF with this bird, she'd make a great pivot

-Illusionist-
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don't ask when she's free, tell her when you're free.

and why did nobody suggest that its possible that her story is true and that her and her brother are really gonna be pretty busy for a couple weeks?

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Being busy with her brother for a couple of weeks is a big call though. Unless they're going away together they won't spend every second of every day together.

what if they are then going away?


and I've had siblings visit me and we pretty much stick together the length of the visit.

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I think you should respond by saying "No problem, have fun with your brother, catch up with you later"

Very simple, non committal, ball is in her court. If you do not received any contact don't write to her again.

A good PUA should not be chasing and buying dinner, they should engineer the situation so that the girl is chasing them. Freeze her out and she might just come running. If not there are 24,000 women in America reaching legal age every day.

Don't get one-itis.

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