Ok, I need few nice ideas for these:

1) if girl in the nightclub tells you something like "Nice haircut" or "I like your necklace", but she you haven't open her previously, so instead she was the first to tell you this, what words would you answer to that to start conversation/pickup.

2) If I like a girl at your work place... is there something special I would need to know about it? Because, you know, it can't be one night stand you can forget after, cause this is a girl you work with and will see her everyday on work after. Probably it doesn't matter for that, but maybe there is something I should pay my attention to in this situation?


That's it...

Thanks!!!!!!

Nikola

I have girls complimenting me on my hair quite often:
"Thanks, I grew it myself" With a little grin, of course...
There's a few ways you can approach this. You can either just say thanks and start talking like you normally would after you opened a girl (she opened you, so transition and build attraction). Or you can say something funny and then transition etc. I prefer saying something witty, but thats me.

As for picking up girls you work with, I wouldn't recommend it. A lot of places actually prohibit relationships between employees. If you fail, things could be awkward. Rather befriend the girls you work with and go out with them and meet their friends. The other point is that girls are a lot more hesitant to date a colleague.

I often get girls telling me that I smell nice (I use a cologne that works for me and its crazy how many girls comment on it. My friends actually tried the same one as me to get the same attention but it just doesnt do them justice (somethign to do with diff colognes smelling differently on different people and all that jazz)

Anyway when they say...'mmm you smell nice'....i reply with...'thanks, funny enough I was actually born smelling this way'.

You dont even need to smile...say it as if youre not even joking...it WILL get a laugh every time...and then smile only after she has laughed. This may seem like reading too deep into it, but something I find myself doing lately which works very well....if its obvious that you are joking with her (as in my above response to her), dont smile...there is no point. A smile should only serve to signify that youre playing around with her and if this is already clear, its not needed. The best comedians in the world do not smile after their joke, its really powerful.

As for gaming the colleague...risky business mate! You dont need that extra added shit at your work place if things end up going pear shaped.