So I've been thinking about some past experiences and comparing what would be beta and what would be the alpha response. I'm wondering what anyone has to say about this case. Several years ago I was on one of my first dates with what would become my gf of 2.5 yrs (and the main reason the little game i did have evaporated).

The waiter at the restaurant blatantly came onto my gf in front of me while he was taking our order. He was basically running game in front of me - touching her shoulder while he showed her the menu, telling her he liked her necklace, etc. While I've got a lot more game these days, I'm not sure what I'd do now. it would need to be something a bit sly to let him know you know... My gf didn't like what he was doing so I ignored it. He didn't do it again.. Still, it would have been nice to have some kind of 'waiter destroyer' haha...

what U think?

Generally speaking, I dont worry about guys flirting with the girls I date... especially if she's my girl friend. More then anything I find it ammusing, it's not like they have a prayer of "taking her away" from me... thats the mindset I have at least

After he left it would depend on my mood but I would probably joke about it in someway... like "I think he likes you " then maybe say something about a fight to the death for my ladies honor while I brandish my butterknife... or grab her face and lick her as I claim to be marking my territory.

Or maybe doing something that an X girlfriend of mine used to do... she would always point it out when a girl was checking me out... it would go something like this:

Her: "That girl over there is staring at you babe"
Me: "oh yeah? well I am a very sexy man, I cant really blame her :-p"
Her: "To bad your mine!"
Her: "I'm gunna make her sooo jealous"

Then she would maul me like a tiger lol

that worked gloriously on me when she would do that... perhaps some modification of that would have the same effect

Dude your the prize! So who cares what this dude does (i know this has already happened but meh). You dont need to perform, but I agree make a joke out of it. Nobody likes the jealous guy.......not even other guys! Also she didnt like it so shes re-assuring you anyway!

Not that you need it your already great!

Spark.

I probably would get a bit pissed.

.......and I just read the entire original post, in fact I'd be quite pissed.

thanks guys - that's some good stuff. thanks a lot doc - that marking your territory bit is phat. money.

Don't tip him.

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