so i watched the blueprint decoded , pretty amazing ....most of the program focuses on being present with the girl ....just a few questions clear up as i feel making distinctions is an important part of this journey

1)i noticed tyler keeps almost constant eye contact when he demontrates an approuch ..iv done this twice and got pretty much instant kisses....but is it vital to remain constant eye contact all the time ...your gonna get distracted every now and then.

2) tyler mentions that a girl can tell whether or not your present by your pupil size and that if your retreat into your head you have pretty much fuked it up ...but how can a girl tell when you have retreated into your head...does your body language reflect the flinching as well


3) the way im seeing it you cant understand being present with the mind ..you just have to understand that when you not thinking your present ...agree?


4 ) incongruent .is this another way of saying ..resistance to the moment .. or say that you have thought of something funny to say ...it wont hit because you wasnt being present ...

ps thanks for your time if you answered these questions ...although i was joking about the free beer ..unless we sarge together one day ...maybe just maybe

I think you have misunderstood the concept of blueprint decoded. It is not a way of approaching, but a way to build a lifestyle. You can do pretty much anything you want as long as you have the correct values to back it off. He just uses those openers etc. to illustrate an example that will come naturally to you once you get that lifestyle.

- Exerio

i understand...thank you