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yesterday i was going a night out and met this girl( i know her but never hang out with her).
she was sticking around - she even searched for me after hearing i was present in the venue, we played a game of chess and did some truth or dare games ( with liquir of course). she even left her friends and changed venues with me. i made her laugh and joke alot while changing venues. ( she switched venues 3 times with me )
after 3 hours i was tired and my friend was sick, i didn't want to leave him behind so i brought him to his home. anyway i left the girl :S she was saying'' why do you leave ?'' ( she bought me a few drinks and some smokes so she invested alot, she chased me sometimes - she was in my presence all the time ) SHE did not like the fact i was leaving but i felt i lost control after a while cauz she walked back in the venue without me, do i decided to split. She did not fancy our friends hanging around she did want them to go away while having conversations with me.
the point is .....i did not invest back with beers or smokes etc , i only made her feel good by hanging around. now i was confused at some point i knew she was interested but somehow i didn't feel like i DLV'ed her enough. i only DLV my friends in front of her by making jokes etc and being alpha.
I fucking sniper negged the shit out of her, eye booger, ash from the smoke on her lip , nail neg etc after the first sniper neg i noticed she didnt care so i sniper negged her again in front of some friends - SHE didn't care at all at one point i didn't dare to neg because i was afraid of overdoing - i tease negged some strangers and friends instead. Kino was accepted , i touched her head, shoulder , hand - if i asked something she gave it to me. i even poured little bit of beer on my head to see if she touches my head ( she did that
). im guessing i was in comfort zone
some time after i left she text messaged me goodnight sleep well - that kind of stuff.
I NEVER game girls when im going out at night , i only pick up girls at school and during daytime in stores etc. i didn't live nearby - her place was nearby, what is the best way to influence a girl to visit her home ? i know moxie and the 7 hour rule but what i really want was to visit her place so we both get comfortable ( my house was to far away - travelling time and logistics problems u know ).
after a while i felt like that wasn't going to happen i lost control a bit because she moved over the venue without me so i told her i got to go without reason and freezed her out. later on she messaged me goodnight which looked like rapport seeking so i told her my friend wasn't feeling well and i escorted him to his home ( DHV spike)
any tips ? should i invite her over to my place to watch a movie , or should we date more ? any constructive critisism ?,
it felt like i was in C1 with some major C3 signs, i didn't have momentum to go to her or my house but she followed everything i said.
o yeah + i did disqualify myself as a potential boyfriend , after i said '' i like you too much il bet we never fall in love your just too nice'' '' o my god your a painter i love painters i can't even talk to you now '' ''hey how about that guy, maybe you can date him -( pointing to ugly guy
)'' she totally ignored my disqualifiers and sticked to me - she even knows i broke up with my ex ( she recently broke up as well ) i wasn't needy ( verbally) but neither was she.
sometimes she behaved like C3 and ignored my disqualifiers.
CHAT
